tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post1501759962875224584..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: An inappropriate dating techniqueGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-29009068765220343282013-09-11T06:23:13.505+01:002013-09-11T06:23:13.505+01:00Great post, and great website. Great post, and great website. Jackyhttp://thetaoofbadassinvestigator.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-43834533357959137502013-09-08T10:49:42.551+01:002013-09-08T10:49:42.551+01:00just saw your reply to S. Asians that i know will ...just saw your reply to S. Asians that i know will usually date a few guys and when they cant find someone else better they will come look for you, like youre their last resort kinda thing, i dont think you should go on further for anything deeper, if its purely sex i dont see the problem, lol, but if he can do that to you once, he will do it to you again. so dont bother getting to know him better cos he doesn't, so it seems... lol.. im getting all hyped up!! tulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09686905805262893112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2269566650278856382013-09-08T10:43:42.641+01:002013-09-08T10:43:42.641+01:00sounds very asian to me, lol, im not being racist,...sounds very asian to me, lol, im not being racist, im an asian myself, and lots of asians(I'm generalising) are kinda clingy, once they get a date or something, the date to them immediately turned into their part time bf kinda thing, they get jealous if youre gonna go out for other meet ups etc but if they were to go out for a date with someone else its perfectly fine.. very typical asian selfish kinda mindset thingy. lol. i know cos i used to date asians back then.. but well not all asians are like that, hahahahah... anyway, hope you have lots of better dates!! :)tulshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09686905805262893112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-69049567534314974072013-08-29T18:51:48.914+01:002013-08-29T18:51:48.914+01:00Good points, Aelred :-). In fact, I haven't h...Good points, Aelred :-). In fact, I haven't heard from him since <a href="http://gaybanker.blogspot.co.uk/2013/08/an-inappropriate-dating-technique.html?showComment=1377551170237#c2520464432241386875" rel="nofollow">his last txt msg</a>, so perhaps it's all over after all :-).<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-33688823706423492742013-08-29T18:35:31.682+01:002013-08-29T18:35:31.682+01:00PS And the teasing when you first met - designed t...PS And the teasing when you first met - designed to leave you wanting more. You say you think he's clueless about dating, but to me he sounds a bit manipulative and I'm not convinced his intentions towards you are good. When you stood up for yourself and told him to cool down, he lost interest, so what he's probably looking for is someone who's more compliant. If you do stay in touch with him (and personally I would run a mile), beware teasing, time-wasting and/or requests for money!Aelrednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-49900510519079790472013-08-29T18:29:45.902+01:002013-08-29T18:29:45.902+01:00Agree with the others that this guy sounds like ba...Agree with the others that this guy sounds like bad news. GB, I don't know why you made excuses for his initial creepy behaviour. Maybe sometimes you're too patient for your own good! Now it sounds like he's playing mind games to keep you guessing - playing hard to get all of a sudden in the hope that you'll feel bad for politely telling him to back off a bit and come grovelling back to him. That way, he gets to stay in the psychological driving seat. I can't see this leading anywhere good...Aelrednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-82262278011834414102013-08-28T00:11:50.194+01:002013-08-28T00:11:50.194+01:00GB
I agree with BananaBoy - he sounds like a real...GB<br /><br />I agree with BananaBoy - he sounds like a real nutter ... be very careful, or you'll end up with a full on stalker !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-3896745651943251052013-08-27T02:43:08.771+01:002013-08-27T02:43:08.771+01:00I think you should just let him be and stop commun...I think you should just let him be and stop communicating with him. I sense trouble from this guy. He might be a 'nice' chap but the way he acts is conspicuously immature and inappropriately possessive (even as a friend). I think you can do better. Better get out before he turns into a full blown nutcase.<br /><br />BananaBoynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-38558159876793034662013-08-27T01:09:36.265+01:002013-08-27T01:09:36.265+01:00That's very intense behavior for just two hour...That's very intense behavior for just two hours' acquaintance... :-|S in Californianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-25204644322413868752013-08-26T22:06:10.237+01:002013-08-26T22:06:10.237+01:00Thanks S. And to my complete surprise, I've j...Thanks S. And to my complete surprise, I've just received an unexpected txt msg from the guy, simply asking "Hey. How r u doing". So the saga continues ...<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-87545402266195733272013-08-26T22:03:00.234+01:002013-08-26T22:03:00.234+01:00GB,
You have such a wonderfully generous and pati...GB, <br />You have such a wonderfully generous and patient attitude in these situations! With the behavior you describe, this gentleman would have had me racing for the nearest exit. I hope you'll find a suitable bf in good time!S in Californianoreply@blogger.com