tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post2773848273105721509..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from Virgin DriverGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-48380906077149994992009-04-22T03:47:00.000+01:002009-04-22T03:47:00.000+01:00as a fellow 24 y/o virgin, i'd love to read his bl...as a fellow 24 y/o virgin, i'd love to read his blog. seems like a very articulate fellowGodfreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15669137262048096616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-79027973495020225352009-04-21T16:58:00.000+01:002009-04-21T16:58:00.000+01:00Sounds like a fun ride to be in on, too. How do yo...Sounds like a fun ride to be in on, too. How do you get an invite?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-47713253855745613212009-04-21T13:38:00.000+01:002009-04-21T13:38:00.000+01:00That's a nciely written first post. Congratulation...That's a nciely written first post. Congratulations on deciding to come out. It's absolutely the right thing to do!! There are lots of places you can get advice on coming out to people - especially parents and for me preapration really helped. But it sounds like you'e got your head around most of the issues you want to explore; and good luck on your first date!!Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07084142428197402563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-87759813914621344962009-04-21T13:30:00.000+01:002009-04-21T13:30:00.000+01:00great post.loving your blog gay banker.like to get...great post.loving your blog gay banker.like to get an invite to virgin drivers blog too.Davidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-54302281966632164942009-04-21T09:46:00.000+01:002009-04-21T09:46:00.000+01:00Cool letter and a good read! I saw quite a few ech...Cool letter and a good read! I saw quite a few echoes of my experience in there, too. The first person I came out to was my sister's best friend, who turned out to be her girlfriend!<br /><br />I realised I was 100% gay about 3 months after meeting my first boyfriend. At first it seemed like an experiment as I'd found myself attracted to men rather than women and I wanted to find out what that was all about.<br /><br />It hit me at about 3pm on a Thursday. I struggled through the rest of the work day then picked up a bottle of whisky and a pile of junk food on the way home, holed up and got very, very drunk.<br /><br />The basis of my reality came crashing down. My future thoughts of a wife and family disappeared. I was going to be an outcast, shunned. I was never going to be able to be affectionate with anyone I loved in a natural, public way. All negative stuff.<br /><br />Oh, and I was also terrified that dying of AIDS was now a foregone conclusion. I grew up just at the right time for the first wave of very agressive 'public service announcements' about the disease.<br /><br />The next evening I told my mother. She took it well at the time. All she said was "Thank God, I thought you'd got some girl pregnant!"<br /><br />I made a point of taking her shopping in the morning and asked her how she was doing. She said she was fine, then told me that it'd kept her awake for 10 minutes or so but then she realised that despite this new information that I was <I>exactly the same person I used to be</I>.<br /><br />For me, that simple truth formed the basis of my acceptance of my sexuality. Realising you're gay doesn't change who or what you are. You were already 'that way' before you were aware of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-78541686130540603982009-04-21T09:18:00.000+01:002009-04-21T09:18:00.000+01:00Welcome to the club !!! You do sound very lucky in...Welcome to the club !!! You do sound very lucky in that friends and family will probably take the news well. That was a well written post - hopefully you will consider extending your blog beyond invite only. Good luck on your gayventure :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-72547209831826490622009-04-21T08:42:00.000+01:002009-04-21T08:42:00.000+01:00You don't need a licence to drive a man (or ride h...You don't need a licence to drive a man (or ride him!)<br /><br />Some should definitely come with a warning label and most shops never accept returns even when the goods were clearly factory soiled. But that's fashion for you. Sometimes you must have it because it looks just gorgeous on you even though you know they're just for a season.<br /><br />Happy shopping!Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-14896607042195149372009-04-21T07:46:00.000+01:002009-04-21T07:46:00.000+01:00A delight to read; good for him.
And I still, at ...A delight to read; good for him.<br /><br />And I still, at 29, can't drive!Stairshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03666338364999663287noreply@blogger.com