tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post3164945095688102975..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: An email from a young gay reader in a relationshipGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-38858861913732760632007-03-26T20:49:00.000+01:002007-03-26T20:49:00.000+01:00good luck xander; I hope things work out for you.....good luck xander; I hope things work out for you...would be interested to hear how you get on to know if you are similar to how I wasmuse-ichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17181456616650486841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27641995700430788552007-03-26T14:00:00.000+01:002007-03-26T14:00:00.000+01:00confidence is not 24/7. it can come and go. when...confidence is not 24/7. it can come and go. when you are in a sketchy relationship you can start to question your confidence. however, maybe what you are experiencing is not actually your self confidence disappearing. maybe you are expereiencing a wake up call that this relationship is not benefical to you. if something makes you feel bad that can be a clue to take stock, re evaluate the relationship and your part in all of this.Marcia, Your Confidence Coachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724817215301843969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-26737814238732232682007-03-26T08:53:00.000+01:002007-03-26T08:53:00.000+01:00You must be the Marjorie Poops of bloggers.....You must be the Marjorie Poops of bloggers.....Hedgyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16494208070410563796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-30347121790766403722007-03-26T08:13:00.000+01:002007-03-26T08:13:00.000+01:00Good luck xander :-)GB xxxPS: Adrian - when a guy ...Good luck xander :-)<BR/>GB xxx<BR/><BR/>PS: Adrian - when a guy starts getting keen on me I just make sure he knows he's got company!GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-63810808907364420092007-03-26T03:55:00.000+01:002007-03-26T03:55:00.000+01:00Ok hi I'm the 19 year old relationship troubled ki...Ok hi I'm the 19 year old relationship troubled kid. I guess i was tired so i dint write as indepth of a letter as id liked to have. We have been together going on 3 years and hes a great guy its just his eagerness to please me makes him feel more like a Sim from the sims than a person sometimes. IM gonna try again to tlk to him about it and ill see what happens form there ill try to keep u abreast of the situation. THANX FOR THE ADVICE!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-63987935067940927732007-03-25T19:36:00.000+01:002007-03-25T19:36:00.000+01:00I think I agree with what a lot of what you say.Se...I think I agree with what a lot of what you say.<BR/><BR/>Seems to me if you are in a relationship it has to be made of two halves. I think a lot of relationship issues -not to mention the age old will I find that special person- can be solved by just chilling.<BR/><BR/>I think 19 is very young to be so committed. I think I would say either be with the guy or leave him. I'm not so sure about broadening his horizons while remaining sort of loosely attachedYellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13687629725369353316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-80850233812600316182007-03-25T16:37:00.000+01:002007-03-25T16:37:00.000+01:00I agree with the previous commenter. That song "Yo...I agree with the previous commenter. <BR/><BR/>That song "Young Hearts Run Free" has a good point. In fact it has several of them. Have a listen to it and then the way forward should be clear. ;)Snoskredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12670406702782244306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-4277587090527409182007-03-25T16:06:00.000+01:002007-03-25T16:06:00.000+01:00i have been in the exact same situation as the rea...i have been in the exact same situation as the reader before.<BR/><BR/>jump. ship. now.<BR/><BR/>it is SO unbelievably liberating - and you can do as you please and find what you really want. ignore it and it will eat away at you and you may do something you will regret.muse-ichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17181456616650486841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-69242481721516805252007-03-25T09:41:00.000+01:002007-03-25T09:41:00.000+01:00hi gb,since the contents of your blog are about yo...hi gb,<BR/>since the contents of your blog are about your hook-ups was there ever a time where one of the guys you have been seeing have fallen in love with you? and if there was how did you handle it? what are the boundaries and limitations that you draw in terms of hooking up with men? there are some guys who just meet up for flings and doesnt discuss or divulge any information about themselves and when they sense that the other guy is becoming close the cut-off the "relationship". well obviously you do you have good relationships with your "boyfriends". <BR/><BR/>adrian :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com