tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post3561194994282145320..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: A reader's journey to being an out gay guy in a banking jobGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-18337985834933488692007-10-19T07:31:00.000+01:002007-10-19T07:31:00.000+01:00Sorry to say anonymous that I'm not an expert on i...Sorry to say anonymous that I'm not an expert on immigation into the UK, or rules for work visas etc. But if you want gay oriented advice though, send me a 'Dear GB' email :-).<BR/><BR/>Take care, GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-31622688986100537192007-10-18T18:38:00.000+01:002007-10-18T18:38:00.000+01:00I find your story very intresting and very challen...I find your story very intresting and very challenging indeed.<BR/><BR/>I am a lawyer and worked in the City for three years but left and came back to BKK where I am from in 2005. <BR/><BR/>I have dated girls and had gfs all my life but none lasted very long. Until a few months ago I feel like stop lying to myself and i have then stopped dating girls. <BR/><BR/>What I now want to do is to move back to the City and start new life all over as a gay man. It is a combination of my deep affection for the UK and London and the chance to explore the other side of life or real side. When I was there last time I dated only girls and now being asked by everyone I know about gf, marriage and other stuffs in connection therewith is not the best thing.<BR/><BR/>I am now 30 and thinking seriously of moving back and get on with an honest life. It will be difficult as I am not from the UK and only connection was a master degree from the UK and work experience but I was there at first on secondment from the office here.<BR/><BR/>If you could give me any idea or suggestions that would be great. Many thanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-59929589172771378782007-05-24T21:29:00.000+01:002007-05-24T21:29:00.000+01:00I'm the same really. Feel no need to hide the fact...I'm the same really. Feel no need to hide the fact I'm gay but also don't shout it from the rooftops.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-44742019657217281422007-05-23T21:52:00.000+01:002007-05-23T21:52:00.000+01:00Hello, I am the guy in the Email. I can completely...Hello, I am the guy in the Email. I can completely understand where you (snoskred) stands for you point. I can perceive the beauty of female. But straight guys do talk about girls in a different way if no girl around. U know...the humble "She is ..." I used will become "she has big OO." or "She is so XXX." Some adjectives in which, me as a gay guy, I am not interested at all. But, in the other way, I don't want to interrupt others conversation. So all I can do is just smiling and listening...(and be a spy for that girl...)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-19849039658483464632007-05-22T22:46:00.000+01:002007-05-22T22:46:00.000+01:00Sometimes at work, some straight male co-workers s...<I>Sometimes at work, some straight male co-workers still like to deliberately say to me "Look, that girl is hot. She is ….…. Don't you think so?"</I><BR/><BR/>I find this quite interesting. I'm not lesbian, but I can find women to be attractive. Does being gay makes you feel that you can't have an opinion on whether a girl is hot or not? You feel like they're having a go at you when they say this? Could it just be that they are being "blokey" and trying to include you in things? Do you think that maybe you are interpreting their actions differently because you are gay, and maybe that they're not having a go at all? <BR/><BR/>Me personally, I think Kylie Minogue is hot, and so is Beyonce. There's probably other women I would add to the list, and it's not just looks that makes them attractive to me. Intelligence is important too. Just because I don't sleep with women doesn't mean I can't express an opinion on their attractiveness. <BR/><BR/>Maybe you are interpreting things correctly, but is there a chance you're not? It's a question worth asking, I think.Snoskredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12670406702782244306noreply@blogger.com