tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post4350426541991987336..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Ex-boyfriend TGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-64130358337798795352017-04-05T14:42:34.337+01:002017-04-05T14:42:34.337+01:00Thank you for reading, @Yellow. My relationship w...Thank you for reading, @<a href="https://www.blogger.com/profile/15643400941994471098" rel="nofollow">Yellow</a>. My relationship with ex-boyfriend T lasted around 4 years, so at the time this was very hard for both of us. Luckily for me, my relationship with boyfriend K seems to be going well, so I'm hopeful that it will last.<br /><br />Hope you're doing OK now, GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-10005918282548059042017-04-05T08:45:06.673+01:002017-04-05T08:45:06.673+01:00I have dated three men consecutively in the past 4...I have dated three men consecutively in the past 4 years, all very briefly for about three to four months. I discovered a pattern in my "breakups" - continuous dates, activities, getting emotionally invested (due to my affectionate character). I consistently failed to identify whether my dates were intended for a relationship or merely casual encounters. During my self-pity days, I started following Matthew Hussey, a relationship coach, and learn about how to date men. As I am reading this blog entry, I cannot help with my tears pouring down my cheeks :-(((Yellowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15643400941994471098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2280563623167171272013-08-06T13:42:27.788+01:002013-08-06T13:42:27.788+01:00Sorry to hear the news, GB :'( It is sad that ...Sorry to hear the news, GB :'( It is sad that people still struggling with being gay and hiding who they really.<br /><br />Stay strong.GVPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16423776239705231226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-67881953798054960382013-08-02T20:21:24.429+01:002013-08-02T20:21:24.429+01:00Tragic but unfortunately a reality a lot of us has...Tragic but unfortunately a reality a lot of us has to face. Despite this, if you choose to believe that someday, someone would cross your path and be with you for life, then it would happen. Call me a hopeless romantic but I firmly believe this. As they say, there are only two sacred things in the world, purpose and chance. <br />Thank you for sharing your most intimate experiences. It's like having a virtual friend. Hopefully we'll cross paths some day, then maybe we could exchange our life stories. Be strong. Pain makes us feel human and its grounding. It needs to rain before season turns to spring. <br /><br />-HarryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-4562785530390166432013-07-29T19:43:07.926+01:002013-07-29T19:43:07.926+01:00Thanks Cody in CT :-). Unfortunately you may well...Thanks Cody in CT :-). Unfortunately you may well be right about ex-boyfriend T. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink :-(.<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-20005397059110607592013-07-29T19:34:29.594+01:002013-07-29T19:34:29.594+01:00GB, I, too, am sorry to hear about your break up w...GB, I, too, am sorry to hear about your break up with T. But it really seems like a relationship doomed from the start with his unwillingness to come out of the closet and face the world as a gay man. I think you will cope with this loss and enjoy new (or existing) relationships. T,however, will probably have major problems.<br />Cody in CTAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-17619865652255829652013-07-29T18:23:52.001+01:002013-07-29T18:23:52.001+01:00Thank you so much, Anomymous, that really is a bea...Thank you so much, Anomymous, that really is a beautiful comment :-). Hope your relationships work out better than mine! GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-7279921069189743762013-07-29T18:14:07.970+01:002013-07-29T18:14:07.970+01:00Sorry to hear this. I've enjoyed your writing...Sorry to hear this. I've enjoyed your writing for a few years now and feel as though you were a good friend. You have such wonderful qualities, can't see how anyone could want to keep you in the shadows. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com