tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post5031437450268513036..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a gay student in the UKGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2076908443443912002009-07-13T13:07:32.762+01:002009-07-13T13:07:32.762+01:00Oh, I can't believe I'm going to say this,...Oh, I can't believe I'm going to say this, but...<br /><br />If you think you might want to bottom and having a 'real life' sh*g didn't work out, how about trying either a finger (your own) or a *small* toy first. Use lots of lube, too.<br /><br />Some people just don't like bottoming. If that's the case then you don't have to do it. It's not a requirement! You can still get a passing grade on the exam!<br /><br />I can't imagine not liking a well-performed bj, though. That's a little odd and suggests that the whole sexual arena has some issue attached.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-85298944514190923062009-07-13T07:41:44.514+01:002009-07-13T07:41:44.514+01:00Briefly, the reader needs to sit down, cool off, t...Briefly, the reader needs to sit down, cool off, take a good, hard look at his life, and come up with a smart plan. <br /><br />He wants a good, fulfilled life, preferably with a cool BF on his side, hot sex, etc.. <br /><br />Gaydar and its lookalikes are all cool and good. Yet, you want to be able to weed out the flakes, fakes, and other dudes who are out to waste your time, even before any such waste occurs. <br /><br />A guy who chickens out, comes 40 minutes too late is NOT your BF material. He is signalling this on all frequencies loud and clear. <br /><br />You know who the BF material is, and go for it, or keep on searching for it. Focus your time, energy and strength on it. <br /><br />Success (very much like failure) tends to be contagious. Your "GF", "Old Friend", etc., needs a little break. Do not spend more time with her than absolutely needed. Great as she may be, she is really your past, and judging by her behavior, not your future. Tell her to get her act straight, find a real BF, and pretty much do the very same thing you are doing: sort out your own life. <br /><br />Suspend 'the two months in every country' program. You need time and stability to achieve your goals. Being on the fly, may sound very cool but is not conducive to seeing your plans come through.This will be a huge turn off for your prospective BFs, unless they do the same. <br /><br />Make it a point not to discuss your past relationship with your prospective dates, tricks, BFs. This is always really wrong, and most irritating to the others as well. <br /><br />Even if you strongly suspect that you may have "dated" a brother of your present romantic interest, keep this (and all the other similar bits) to yourself. You can release that specific information, once this becomes necessary. A guy giving out personal info on his past affairs is mostly sending other guys packing right away. <br /><br />SCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com