tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post5968515269745106191..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a gay teenagerGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-88905380320946782732008-01-05T13:46:00.000+00:002008-01-05T13:46:00.000+00:00I guess life is hard, but it's easy for ppl who've...I guess life is hard, but it's easy for ppl who've made similar moves earlier in their younger lives to act sagacious and sanctimonious in their more mature versions.<BR/><BR/>I agree with GB.First love fostered in a closeted environment is a hard emotion. The boy obviously needs to move on and he will. Give him a break fellas.It's not easy being young and closeted and scared.<BR/><BR/>I'm sure like many of you, when he looks back at his life, he'll laugh this phase off and I am sure he'd have learnt a lot from it.Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00246080305187265813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2661341288902437792008-01-03T00:36:00.000+00:002008-01-03T00:36:00.000+00:00Just move on. The other guys boyfriend will not b...Just move on. The other guys boyfriend will not be too delighted with the whole thing, and same for the writers boyfriend (to be). They were young and they had a connection, so what? Life goes on and people grow up and move on. It sounds from the update that the writer is still uncertain about what he wants anyway......Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-5400610593577398602008-01-02T03:51:00.000+00:002008-01-02T03:51:00.000+00:00GB, you are being way too nice to this nut, who Si...GB, you are being way too nice to this nut, who Sir Wobin nicely pointed out is stalking someone he has an unhealthy obsession with. It does him a disservice to give him your long understanding explanations of how what he's feeling makes sense. His behavior does not make sense. It's irrational and verging on the abusive. Mr. 19 needs to wake up and smell the coffee, as dear old Ann Landers once said so well.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242056008915654711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-85530224032638190842008-01-01T15:12:00.000+00:002008-01-01T15:12:00.000+00:00Just to say that you can have sex at 16 (17 in Nor...Just to say that you can have sex at 16 (17 in Northern Ireland) but have to be 18 to use Gaydar (and to look at pornography) because of the explicit photos there. A bit queer but that's the way it is at the moment.<BR/><BR/>With broadband one can be logged in to Gaydar 24/7 and not actually be there. But the second guy's definitely not interested in a relationship.Masturbedroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-46874149883201522082007-12-31T18:46:00.000+00:002007-12-31T18:46:00.000+00:00I think it's a sweet story. And, GB, your advice a...I think it's a sweet story. And, GB, your advice about their unique bond and his nedding to get some relationship experience under his belt was spot on. He was young and not ready to come out and go into a relationship with someone he hadn't met (although he knows well). Understandable. He drunk dialed, which many people do. No big deal. But the guy isn't available now, and he's OK with that. Both are young and might get together someday. One learns a lot about one's self when we love another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-77031408001433950902007-12-31T12:16:00.000+00:002007-12-31T12:16:00.000+00:00Did the reader expect a 20-something young gay man...Did the reader expect a 20-something young gay man he's never met to wait through years of celebacy for him to grow up and to begin sorting out his emotional baggage? Welcome to the real world.<BR/><BR/>Let go. Move on. Make a life of your own. Stalking someone ain't cool.Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.com