tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post6542950145827783662..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: FlightGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-68444193619506236062013-03-10T02:08:29.444+00:002013-03-10T02:08:29.444+00:00I really hope that he chooses you. just saying.I really hope that he chooses you. just saying.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-15283013461872143902013-03-06T06:48:41.263+00:002013-03-06T06:48:41.263+00:00Hi,
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congratz!Hi,<br />best blog<br />congratz!jmoraishttp://adf.ly/9hoflnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-62464328797743067192013-03-02T13:46:50.763+00:002013-03-02T13:46:50.763+00:00It must be difficult for him. On the one hand he&#...It must be difficult for him. On the one hand he's probably seen lots of out gay men living openly out and on the other hand he's probably unsure about the reactions he will get from people he loves.<br /><br />Boyfriend T always strikes me as a thinker from what you write, someone who will always go away and thinks about something. So perhaps now you've planted the seed, it's about watering it from time to time? And maybe asking some targeted questions around why he doesn't tell anybody he's gay.<br /><br />You two have been together for quite a while now (from what I gather reading), so he's obviously happy with you. When it comes to love, I think people always try to stay together if they are happy. So hopefully when Boyfriend T reaches that decision stage, he'll choose what brings the most happiness into his life.<br /><br />Take care and keep us informed,<br /><br />Antony xAntonyhttp://www.antonysimpson.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2022362096679073912013-02-27T20:44:10.400+00:002013-02-27T20:44:10.400+00:00Everyone has secrets but how do you live with some...Everyone has secrets but how do you live with something like it? Hard to understand.<br /><br /><br /><br />/Avy<br /><br /><a href="http://mymotherfuckedmickjagger.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow"><b>http://mymotherfuckedmickjagger.blogspot.com</b></a><br /><br />♥AVYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01035987277042149877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-62309971419702504422013-02-27T02:10:31.628+00:002013-02-27T02:10:31.628+00:00I have to agree with Lulu, this secret is now your...I have to agree with Lulu, this secret is now yours to carry. As someone who didn't have the difficult coming out, I struggle sometimes to empathize with people that don't just bite the bullet.Mind Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09112890718925524313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-11727658482819118362013-02-18T15:08:51.537+00:002013-02-18T15:08:51.537+00:00Coming out is a watershed moment in gay life. It&#...Coming out is a watershed moment in gay life. It's almost bigger than any other thing you have to go through. My opinion is that if you don't come out then you're only living half a life and equally as importantly, you're lying to people wh love and care for you. Clearly it's more difficult in some cultures, but it's disrespectful to your partner, your family and yourself in the long run. I only came out at 25, but that was 3 months after I started my first same-sex relationship. I couldn't look my mother in the eye and tell her I wasn't seeing anyone. It took longer to come out to my father as she became a gatekeeper, insisting that he wouldn't understand. In the end I gave up waiting for her approval and it turned out he knew (or suspected) all along. Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-81534663136471604012013-02-13T08:59:47.778+00:002013-02-13T08:59:47.778+00:00That's an excellent question, 毒小弟 :-).
The p...That's an excellent question, 毒小弟 :-). <br /><br />The problem is that Boyfriend T is living in complete fear of what life would be like on "the other side" of coming out to any of the people he knows. That's a terrible way to live. If you don't believe me, I wonder if you've seen the 1992 film <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105488/" rel="nofollow">Strictly Ballroom</a>? On the face of it it's quite a light-hearted film, but the underlying story contains a very important message. The lead female character sums it up (initially in Spanish) when she says "Vivir con miedo, es como vivir a medias". If you haven't seen the film, bear those words in mind while you're watching the final scene, and listen carefully to what the lead character's father says to lead character!<br /><br />GB xxx<br /><br />PS: Astute readers will immediately spot that <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105488/" rel="nofollow">Strictly Ballroom</a> has been the favourite film listed in my blogger profile for many years!GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-2713435054618350092013-02-13T00:47:39.160+00:002013-02-13T00:47:39.160+00:00Hi GB,
I have been reading your blog, and I love...Hi GB, <br /><br />I have been reading your blog, and I love it. <br />I'm in the same situation as your boyfriend T. <br />I'm just wondering why you would care so much whether he will come out or remains closeted? <br />I think he is under stress, and look up to you as the only person he could be less care about his sexual orientation and more comfortable with. <br />He must love you a lot to give you such privilege. <br />毒小弟https://www.blogger.com/profile/11498365771687507490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-1604832582655682642013-02-13T00:41:01.403+00:002013-02-13T00:41:01.403+00:00His secret becomes yours by proxy. Secrets of this...His secret becomes yours by proxy. Secrets of this gravity tend to become so. damned. heavy. <br /><br />I hope he chooses you, too.<br /><br />xx<br />Lulu<br /><a href="http://ablueoctober.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Breakfast After 10</a>LuLuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206852688005295433noreply@blogger.com