tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post6723533905904860098..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: I don't invent the 'Dear GB' emails!GBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-28491358515017355772007-07-01T19:01:00.000+01:002007-07-01T19:01:00.000+01:00I think it's way too much effort to fake postings ...I think it's way too much effort to fake postings and why would u want to do that anyway? I believe u - always have :-)Humming Bird in Hydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08680924058987036459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-13023615885110386222007-06-28T22:56:00.000+01:002007-06-28T22:56:00.000+01:00I, for one, think "Dear GB" is the most fabulous t...I, for one, think "Dear GB" is the most fabulous thing on the web and that you are a saint for taking the time to reply to such emails.Jinxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15708699328805051548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-82019226131965995942007-06-27T19:41:00.000+01:002007-06-27T19:41:00.000+01:00I will look forward to the next Dear GB post ;)I will look forward to the next Dear GB post ;)Brechihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05745195309557148429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-37244302882860575432007-06-27T19:10:00.000+01:002007-06-27T19:10:00.000+01:00You cant make everyone happy so I think you dont n...You cant make everyone happy so I think you dont need to explain anything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27745117233382855292007-06-26T18:40:00.000+01:002007-06-26T18:40:00.000+01:00Is the previous comment from Lady Muck of http://l...Is the previous comment from Lady Muck of <A HREF="http://ladymuck.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">http://ladymuck.blogspot.com/</A>? If so, I might take more notice if you logged in to make yourself properly identifiable, and also if I was on your blogroll LOL! In any case, thanks very much for the constructive critisism, I do want to hear this stuff.<BR/><BR/>The trouble is that I got a bit bored blogging about <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Encounters" REL="nofollow">Encounters</A> constantly, the format of those posts is often identical. And I enjoy blogging about <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Boyfriends" REL="nofollow">my boyfriends</A>, <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Gay%20Life" REL="nofollow">gay life in general</A>, and also the '<A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Dear%20GB" REL="nofollow"><STRONG>Dear GB</STRONG></A>' stuff because there each situation is different. I can't help thinking that if people didn't like the '<A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Dear%20GB" REL="nofollow"><STRONG>Dear GB</STRONG></A>' stuff, I wouldn't keep getting emails in my inbox asking for advice.<BR/><BR/>I've had comment in both directions if one looks back, some people have encouraged <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2006/11/new-gay-banker-blog.html" REL="nofollow">my new format</A>, and some people miss all the <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Encounters" REL="nofollow">Encounters</A>. I still do <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Encounters" REL="nofollow">Encounters</A> occasionally, but for now at least, it's not going to be my main focus.<BR/><BR/>So it's the old adage, "You can please some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but ..."<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-78536457717658228282007-06-26T14:30:00.000+01:002007-06-26T14:30:00.000+01:00I hope you take this constructively, but you were ...I hope you take this constructively, but you were so much more interesting when you were just talking about your daliances.<BR/><BR/>Stick to what you do best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-48440818997391205072007-06-26T05:14:00.000+01:002007-06-26T05:14:00.000+01:00Hi GB,I would have written this in a personal emai...Hi GB,<BR/><BR/>I would have written this in a personal email to you as with my usual style but I felt that I must leave a comment instead as Stephen's comment is perjurious to your reputation and most importantly your efforts.<BR/><BR/>It is unfortunate that the "Dear GB" emails that you received have been suggested as "invented" by Stephen. While he may asked you rather politely, I believe it must have felt unkind and hurtful to you especially since you actually do take the effort to contemplate about the issues before providing advice. Although you may not be a professional counsellor, I must say that you have certainly adopted a professional approach to it, with very good insights provided almost every time.<BR/><BR/>I should know. You received Robert's email reply to your follow-up email while we were having <A HREF="http://dragonzlad.wordpress.com/2007/06/16/an-end-to-a-nice-summer/" REL="nofollow">dinner</A>! Then, you had discussed with me over dinner the hidden issues in the email which you think he might be facing. <BR/><BR/>There will always be skeptics out there for all the good that is being done. And I know such skeptism can be demoralising since you do take much time and effort in this. But please, take this as a chance to clarify your position and not be too affected by Stephen's comment. I know I have personaly benefited from your advice and so have the others who have written to you. It will be a pity if others out there cannot benefit from your insights and advice.<BR/><BR/>Best regards,<BR/><I> <A HREF="http://www.dragonzlad.wordpress.com" REL="nofollow">Dragonzlad</A></I>Dragonzladhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02788072778882097719noreply@blogger.com