tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post6929621460990005090..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Friend or boyfriend?GBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-74271744513700382012008-04-22T13:29:00.000+01:002008-04-22T13:29:00.000+01:00hag....hag....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-57829035261143641952008-04-14T20:45:00.000+01:002008-04-14T20:45:00.000+01:00Omg you guys are adorable! I absolutely love gay m...Omg you guys are adorable! I absolutely love gay men!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-21353125186583623762008-04-04T20:29:00.000+01:002008-04-04T20:29:00.000+01:00I've always found as I get older that i'm a lot mo...I've always found as I get older that i'm a lot more cautious about labelling relationships if that makes sense. When I first came out I only had to be seeing someone for a few days and it's 'ooh we're boyfriends now'<BR/><BR/>Nowadays I seem to get the feeling not to rush and always think about it and then just one day it'll feel right (or not in some cases). So don't be disheartened GB he just wants to make sure<BR/><BR/>(Hope I don't sound incredibly patronising, a 26 yr old giving advice!) xStephen Pendredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10102792994662043127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-63333711003792185002008-04-01T07:30:00.000+01:002008-04-01T07:30:00.000+01:00Did you see my thoughts on constructing gay relati...Did you see my thoughts on <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2008/01/how-should-gay-relationships-be.html" REL="nofollow">constructing gay relationships</A> <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02678928359782830807" REL="nofollow">Soul Seared Dreamer</A>? With boyfriend P, I think I've already demonstrated the commitments that I suggest in that posting.<BR/><BR/>I think you're quite right <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/04293723303878595673" REL="nofollow">glhairyfxxker</A>, boyfriend P is trying to keep his options open. But how would you like it if you were in public with a <EM>close friend</EM> who suddenly introduced you to as his boyfriend to someone that you didn't know? I still think public boyfriend status needs to be agreed!<BR/><BR/>There is already an RSS feed, anonymous. See "Site feeds" on my right-hand side-bar, and click on the feedburner icon.<BR/><BR/>I'm honestly a banker, not a lawyer, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05651663377386943745" REL="nofollow">Fork</A> :-). Since you mention lawyers, perhaps you're one yourself?<BR/><BR/>You're quite right Daniel Johns, boyfriend P is very sweet :-). I just wish I saw him more often!<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-5129383309375203612008-03-31T23:31:00.000+01:002008-03-31T23:31:00.000+01:00Oh, he's so sweet! I've been reading your stuff an...Oh, he's so sweet! I've been reading your stuff and I really like this boyfriend... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-32402111898823175982008-03-31T13:14:00.000+01:002008-03-31T13:14:00.000+01:00Oh how you complicate your life in a way that only...Oh how you complicate your life in a way that only a lawyer I know can!<BR/><BR/>-ForkyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-74676259261957528632008-03-30T17:01:00.000+01:002008-03-30T17:01:00.000+01:00GB - could you add a RSS feed to your blog? much e...GB - could you add a RSS feed to your blog? much easier to keep myself updated on your exciting news.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-72566579191641327992008-03-29T20:29:00.000+00:002008-03-29T20:29:00.000+00:00Do you really think it is because he's still got t...Do you really think it is because he's still got the mindset that a guy can only have one boyfriend?<BR/><BR/>If so, you should be alarmed that he has some hesistation about calling you his boyfriend in public. Do you see where I'm going?<BR/><BR/>I also don't see why you'd need his consent. He might have thought that a bit of a bailout!<BR/><BR/>Much more likely to my mind is that he'd still like to keep his options open or is not sure where things are heading.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-19444788086074716272008-03-29T15:30:00.000+00:002008-03-29T15:30:00.000+00:00See now its really strange.. I'm totally comfortab...See now its really strange.. I'm totally comfortable with this in theory but in actual practice I'm not sure I'd deal with this very well.<BR/><BR/>Kudos to P.Soul Seared Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02678928359782830807noreply@blogger.com