tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post7606765027871609496..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a 20yo gay guyGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-81101574585440975162011-06-14T13:14:13.523+01:002011-06-14T13:14:13.523+01:00I agree. I was very frightened of bottoming for m...I agree. I was very frightened of bottoming for my bf the first time but actually I loved it - nothing to do with the prostate, just an incomparable feeling of intimacy, and being able to give him intense pleasure. A practical tip: buy an anal douche (just a silicone bulb and spout for squirting water up your bum) and, having first lubed it well, douche before sex. Relaxing, makes it more comfortable for both partners, and avoids the potential embarrassment mentioned by the last poster. You can do it a couple of hours before, so you don't need to interrupt the preliminaries to dash off to the bathroom! Enjoy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-12616609421491172532011-05-21T18:18:30.829+01:002011-05-21T18:18:30.829+01:00I would reiterate what GB has said: anal sex is NO...I would reiterate what GB has said: anal sex is NOT the be all and end all of being gay. But when done properly it can be a mind-blowing experience, not just in terms of the kind of orgasm you can enjoy, but also in terms of the level of intimacy and loving you can reach with your partner. <br /><br />As someone who used not to like anal sex, I would say it is extremely important to be relaxed and to trust the person who is fucking you. Nothing could be worse than someone trying to force themselves on you if it just plain hurts. The 'top' also needs to be a patient person if it is your first time. If they love you, then patience will come naturally, because they will really want you to enjoy it too. Make sure you have soft lights, loads of time, plenty of lube and condoms, a spare towel and tissues. Also, sorry to be frank, but going to the bathroom shortly before 'lift off' will help you to relax yourself where it matters as well as reducing potential mess and embarrassment. <br /><br />Good luck! XXXXAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-9942102788349092442011-05-04T19:40:21.344+01:002011-05-04T19:40:21.344+01:00To the anonymous commenter, whoever they are: I ne...To the anonymous commenter, whoever they are: I never got into <em>that kind</em> of detail in all <a href="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Encounters" rel="nofollow">my encounter posts</a> which were often with guys that I had no emotional connection to. So not sure why you think I'll answer your question now! But here's a thought. Boyfriend T does have a blog. If you can find it, perhaps you can ask him :-).<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-44278158796127667522011-04-28T06:11:35.478+01:002011-04-28T06:11:35.478+01:00Hi,
Its Jamie!
first I'd like to say that go...Hi,<br /><br />Its Jamie!<br /><br />first I'd like to say that good on you for saving urself. Because that is my advice for everyone out there. I rushed it and I had a huge guilt trip after wards for weeks on end. The thing is, its better to have one satisfying encounter than 10000 crap ones. So hold onto that V atlantic ticket coz once u lose it its non refundable!<br /><br />Also, Id like to say that anal sex is good and it is bad. It will hurt like hell at the start, but if u find someone u will like, it will feel like heaven. Heaven or hell.. those are ur only options hahaha. Before u do it, may i suggest u buy urself a dildo first and work ur way up... nothing is worse than taking the end of yr exam at the start of the yr. same goes with anal.. u gotta practice and practice. <br /><br /><br />JamieJamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09297833449538883515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-84864475098561659982011-04-27T15:40:57.908+01:002011-04-27T15:40:57.908+01:00What about you GB. Have you had anal sex yet with ...What about you GB. Have you had anal sex yet with bf T?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-3915174737603605502011-04-26T16:51:53.984+01:002011-04-26T16:51:53.984+01:00I really do appreciate the fact you do this for yo...I really do appreciate the fact you do this for your readers. I still value the advice you gave to me.Mind Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09112890718925524313noreply@blogger.com