tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post8485913860113174825..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Activity reportGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-42164461429229205092013-08-20T17:46:06.730+01:002013-08-20T17:46:06.730+01:00Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to you!
Happ...Happy birthday to you!<br />Happy birthday to you!<br />Happy birthday dear <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561" rel="nofollow">Kenski</a> :-)<br />Happy birthday to you!<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-74146605004643521212013-08-20T17:32:52.580+01:002013-08-20T17:32:52.580+01:00Well, I hit 44 today... Hopefully I've picked ...Well, I hit 44 today... Hopefully I've picked up a few useful tips along the way :)Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-58076352014683086652013-08-20T17:16:23.041+01:002013-08-20T17:16:23.041+01:00Well said, Kenski :-). Actually, I think that I p...Well said, <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561" rel="nofollow">Kenski</a> :-). Actually, I think that I pretty much did always agree with your comments!<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-70153315667698196662013-08-20T17:02:10.544+01:002013-08-20T17:02:10.544+01:00Actually, as a side note, one of the main things i...Actually, as a side note, one of the main things in keeping a relationship going is to embrace change. If relationships don't change they stagnate and die. Gay men often suffer from not having the same pattern to fall back on as straight people (meet, marry, babies etc) so there's not much progression unless you carve your own path. Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-26412884146593239082013-08-20T16:58:50.994+01:002013-08-20T16:58:50.994+01:00I think physical love is something that helps form...I think physical love is something that helps form a strong bond between people. The bond isn't reliant on the physical relationship, though. Sexuality is about sex. Relationships aren't necessarily, though they often start based on mutual physical attraction. <br /><br />I also think that a lot of the staunch monogamy-oriented mindset is to do with insecurity in the early part of a relationship. A new lover (who isn't you) is often seen as a threat to the emotional bond you are forming, even if it is a purely physical encounter. <br /><br />Different things work for different people at different times in their life. Life, itself, is an ever-changing state of being. That's the fun bit. Getting too deep... Reel it in!!!<br /><br />Imaging being in a closed monogamous relationship where one of the partners is miserable because they're not getting their sexual needs met, perhaps because after 25 years the sex has stopped evolving. Isn't it better for that partner to safely supplement their physical needs whilst maintaining the emotional balance in the long-term relationship?<br /><br />Or buy a sports car and run off with a 21 year old bimbo...? That always works out well for everyone :)Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27737407724713793382013-08-16T17:31:21.092+01:002013-08-16T17:31:21.092+01:00FYI, Paul, the guy that I met who'd been with ...FYI, Paul, the guy that I met who'd been with his boyfriend for over 25 years also told me that they still sometimes have sex with each other. However, sometimes they <em>play away</em>, like when the guy visited me. Overall, he gave me the impression that their relationship was very strong.<br /><br />I think the important thing is to not to anticipate how you're going to feel about something or someone a very long way in the future. In general, there are bound to be things that you'll enjoy in your 20's that you won't enjoy when you're in your 70's, and vice versa.<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-28739527489995140382013-08-16T16:12:26.260+01:002013-08-16T16:12:26.260+01:00It seems that more than just a few long term gay c...It seems that more than just a few long term gay couples eventually end up not having sex with each other years down the road. This is really disturbing to me as a young gay man. While I've come to accept that monogamy is over-rated, I still find it hard to understand how two people who used to be totally inseparable could slowly drift apart and sexual needs take precedence over a relationship that takes years to build. <br /><br />I'm not against people hooking up. Reading a blog like yours just makes me feel a little confused about life as a gay man. Paulnoreply@blogger.com