tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post9063702440873329213..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: House hunting with boyfriend number 1GBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-40453038048655116772007-11-26T21:54:00.000+00:002007-11-26T21:54:00.000+00:00Wow-thats a shocker. Never expected that. Perhaps ...Wow-thats a shocker. Never expected that. Perhaps there was more of an undercurrent in the relationship that wasn't expressed in prior postings?<BR/><BR/>As a gay banker in a LTR in NY with "interests" on the side, I am eagerly anticipating your posting about it. <BR/><BR/>We learn so much from your shared experiences-thank you. As the first generation of gay men to live in a newly gay world, we've got a lot to learn. And sharing our stories is the first step.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-10172705475306112492007-11-22T02:05:00.000+00:002007-11-22T02:05:00.000+00:00GB, you already know that you've exceeded my expec...GB, you already know that you've exceeded my expectations, but yes, at this distance, 'tis a little challenging! HOWEVER, we're just a short'ish flight (well, OK, maybe not but still...) away! ;-) All things considered, you always know that if you ever visit our fair shores again, you've got at least one friend here! (though I'm sure you've got plenty more) Hugs! xMontyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-88224053549906576032007-11-21T19:45:00.000+00:002007-11-21T19:45:00.000+00:00Well all things considered.. its great you can mov...Well all things considered.. its great you can move on so smoothly.<BR/><BR/>You really are a great guy GB.<BR/><BR/>Kinda like an end of an era though, huh?Soul Seared Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02678928359782830807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-35897083944199668682007-11-21T08:13:00.000+00:002007-11-21T08:13:00.000+00:00Awwww, thanks Monty, your implied affection means ...Awwww, thanks <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308" REL="nofollow">Monty</A>, your implied affection means a lot to me :-). I guess this is where I have to say, I can't live up to your expectations, particularly at this distance LOL!<BR/><BR/>Love and kisses, GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-70587719640519093962007-11-20T22:54:00.000+00:002007-11-20T22:54:00.000+00:00Hey GB...you don't need to meet those guys! You'v...Hey GB...you don't need to meet those guys! You've already met the cream of the crop! LOL Christerbjorn (McDreamy) is already taken...but DG and SG are now available. BUT I'm first in the queue! LOLMontyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-9758423829707571442007-11-19T22:55:00.000+00:002007-11-19T22:55:00.000+00:00Give up men SP? In my experience, guys do have th...Give up men <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10102792994662043127" REL="nofollow">SP</A>? In my experience, guys do have their <EM>uses</EM> LOL!<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the kind thoughts <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890" REL="nofollow">Sir Wobin</A>. I am getting support of a kind from some of the other guy's that I'm close to. I say 'of a kind' because they seem to think that I'm not being firm enough with boyfriend number 1, given that I'm buying him somewhere to live. However, perhaps they're a bit biased!<BR/><BR/>No Anonymous Matt, whoever you really are. This blog is effectively my therapy, and I can honestly say that I feel absolutely no need to tell anyone about it, especially since I need this therapy given what's happening in my life at the moment.<BR/><BR/>Good idea <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308" REL="nofollow">Monty</A>, there are lots of hot sounding guys down under. Perhaps you could introduce me so some of them, perhaps guys like <A HREF="http://nowbacktothefuture.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Dating Guy</A>, <A HREF="http://singleinthecity1.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Single Guy</A>, <A HREF="http://christerbjorn.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Christerbjorn</A>, ... :-). Just teasing!<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-34520691530314192152007-11-19T22:20:00.000+00:002007-11-19T22:20:00.000+00:00OK GB...will you be expanding your potential boyfr...OK GB...will you be expanding your potential boyfriend pool to include the Antipodes??? *nudge nudge* I think I've been through a fairly thorough "interview" already...just not the kind of interview you're talking about! ;-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-43042051665263323142007-11-19T21:44:00.000+00:002007-11-19T21:44:00.000+00:00Assuming you do go your separate ways GB, do you t...Assuming you do go your separate ways GB, do you think you will now tell BF number 1 about the blog? Is there a small devil on one shoulder urging a cathartic confession?<BR/><BR/>MattAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-71156089321944726472007-11-19T16:56:00.000+00:002007-11-19T16:56:00.000+00:00Hope you're OK with everything GB. This is a big ...Hope you're OK with everything GB. This is a big change and it's good to see you supporting bf1. Hope you have the support you need from the other lovely men in your life.Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-48394498434531191362007-11-19T11:43:00.000+00:002007-11-19T11:43:00.000+00:00Hi GB hope everything goes well with your break-up...Hi GB hope everything goes well with your break-up, i'm going through one at the moment and the other half is not accepting it at all, does one minute but half an hour later thinking everything's fine in the world,<BR/><BR/>maybe i should give up on men all together!!!Stephen Pendredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10102792994662043127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-50051548635987344982007-11-19T07:06:00.000+00:002007-11-19T07:06:00.000+00:00Thanks for your kind thoughts ttonn.I don't really...Thanks for your kind thoughts <A HREF="http://www.ttonn.com/blog/" REL="nofollow">ttonn</A>.<BR/><BR/>I don't really know much about hair trimming <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/13290244488655449983" REL="nofollow">Adrian</A>, although back in January <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2007/01/should-man-trim-his-pubic-hair.html" REL="nofollow">I let boyfriend number 3 trim me <EM>downstairs</EM></A>! And when he did it, he used something like the gadget pictured in that post.<BR/><BR/>I should write a whole post to answer that question <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/07614893991088767916" REL="nofollow">Pete</A>. But for now, I reckon it'll probably be for the best as long as we can remain close friends.<BR/><BR/>LOL <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308" REL="nofollow">Monty</A>, but there are <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2007/02/mostly-successful-valentines-day.html" REL="nofollow">other guys in my life</A> apart from the ones that you mention! But perhaps I should expand the potential boyfriend pool a bit? I don't think I'll bother with application forms though, instead all applicants will get thorough <EM>interviews</EM> :-)!<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-33014973818751106282007-11-19T04:36:00.000+00:002007-11-19T04:36:00.000+00:00I've just read your last couple of posts GB...one ...I've just read your last couple of posts GB...one quick question...if you and BF1 do split up and he will be living separately from you, will he still remain as BF1? Or will BF2 then upgrade to BF1 and BF3 become BF2? and then, if you've only got BF2 and BF3 left, will you want someone to fill BF3's place? If so, how does one apply for this position? LOL ;-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-84775469324134686112007-11-18T23:54:00.000+00:002007-11-18T23:54:00.000+00:00Hi GB,Just a very personal question: how do you fe...Hi GB,<BR/><BR/>Just a very personal question: how do you feel about splitting up? You've been together for an awfully long time.Petehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07614893991088767916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-15117499617045685422007-11-18T14:30:00.000+00:002007-11-18T14:30:00.000+00:00hi gb, i know your dear gb queries are about relat...hi gb, i know your dear gb queries are about relationships or personal development but my question is a skew from the usual topic. my question is about personal grooming. i know you probably think that this may sound like a queer eye for a queer guy show. :-P what is the right way method of shaving ones body hair (legs etc.)? do you shave your body or shaved any guys you have hooked-up? i dont know what to use? good old shaving, using naire or waxing? any advise?Adrianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13290244488655449983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-89546564526296558892007-11-18T11:08:00.000+00:002007-11-18T11:08:00.000+00:00Good to know another man survives and live happily...Good to know another man survives and live happily after a relationship end. GB you are really a caring man. I say this not because you buy your boyfriend number 1 a house, I say this because you gave him time to accept the true. Please allow me to say think you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com