tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post1542404909103050705..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: The gay bachelor lifestyleGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-6834692851048537082010-02-22T15:55:50.967+00:002010-02-22T15:55:50.967+00:00I found my bf online :D but not on the normal site...I found my bf online :D but not on the normal sites like Gaydar, we met on www.mancentral.com<br />they offer free gay chat and I'm still a member cos its a great way to chat with like minded guys unlike other sites where people judge you str8 away.Anthony Blakehttp://www.mancentral.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-13698107916383659642008-10-09T02:09:00.000+01:002008-10-09T02:09:00.000+01:00Would a B/F actually "keep your natural urges in c...Would a B/F actually "keep your natural urges in check"??? From what I know of you GB, your natural urges require more than one B/F (whether live-in or not)??? ;-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-49554943970046158522008-10-07T08:54:00.000+01:002008-10-07T08:54:00.000+01:00Lol Anon. GB would be too busy plying them with vi...Lol Anon. GB would be too busy plying them with vintage claret to find the time reward his duster and pinny with a pension :)Charliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03470441505513112175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-81119573325219620482008-10-07T01:50:00.000+01:002008-10-07T01:50:00.000+01:00hello gb does your cleaner gets a pension from y...hello gb does your cleaner gets a pension from you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-29304686902706108182008-10-06T12:44:00.000+01:002008-10-06T12:44:00.000+01:00Maybe HB8, but of course I love the way that Charl...Maybe <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05234119524600114890" REL="nofollow">HB8</A>, but of course I love the way that <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/03470441505513112175" REL="nofollow">Charlie</A> puts it, the idea that sharing your bed with a nice guy just "relaxes the soul". I think that’s an excellent way of saying it! [<A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08680924058987036459" REL="nofollow">HBH</A> is still around, but I know he's got a lot going on in his life so it's not surprising that he's not posting much at the moment.]<BR/><BR/>Good point <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561" REL="nofollow">Kenski</A>, but in this case neither me or M are being unfaithful. Although I didn't blog about my second hook-up with M, at that point he'd already split up with his boyfriend, and I don't have a commitment to be faithful to anyone at the moment.<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-34558867831381393162008-10-06T10:50:00.000+01:002008-10-06T10:50:00.000+01:00You've actually indirectly underlined one of the f...You've actually indirectly underlined one of the fears (perceived or real) that most people who cling to monogamy (myself included to *some* degree) have about accepting that their partner may be out sh*gging other people. <BR/><BR/>When you met M, both of you had significant others (singular/plural) so it was just a bit of convenient extra-curricular fun. However, you've now said that you're getting to know each other and that it could lead to a relationship. <BR/><BR/>And therein lies the fear of many people, that there may be someone 'better' than you out there and if your partner is actively meeting other folks, albeit nominally 'just for sex', then what happens if they decide they *really* like them. It's the staple plotline for mid-life crises :-)<BR/><BR/>I think it ultimately comes down to 'faith' (no, not the religious kind!) in your partner, which may or may not be justified... so maybe it's having faith in your own faith that keeps one secure.<BR/><BR/>Still, it's too early on a Monday morning to be deep (otherwise I'd have shot for a third 'faith')Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-38211436441199204142008-10-04T14:18:00.000+01:002008-10-04T14:18:00.000+01:00GB, it's not just you that's been quiet blogging m...<A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">GB</A>, it's not just you that's been quiet blogging mate, where's <A HREF="http://hummingbirdinhyde.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">HBH</A> disappeared to?<BR/><BR/>the difference between meeting out on the town with a guy and the intimate nights in cuddling in our sleep under the duvet are total extremes that only guys that have got used to understand. I share your belief that the though ex-S, P or, whoever, has already gone and warmed up the bed just relaxes the soul. Yikes, we're sounding soppy like <A HREF="http://www.muchadoaboutmonty.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Monty's</A> McBrad posts :)<BR/><BR/>Have fun.Charliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03470441505513112175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-35558067595703310352008-10-04T12:28:00.000+01:002008-10-04T12:28:00.000+01:00GB, You're sounding a bit codependent, there. If...GB, <BR/><BR/>You're sounding a bit codependent, there. If you need someone else to cuddle for a good night's sleep, and can't moderate your online cruising without another's influence, then you might be more in love with the idea of a relationship than with an individual. <BR/><BR/>Just sayin'<BR/><BR/>HB8The Honourable Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05234119524600114890noreply@blogger.com