tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post301301838111520834..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: An email about condoms and erection problemsGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-70167486618406804632009-10-30T15:38:23.370+00:002009-10-30T15:38:23.370+00:00For me, the Dr Max HGH Spray delivered the wood. F...For me, the Dr Max HGH Spray delivered the wood. Forty-five minutes after takingit I had a raging HO. The Missus could swing with both hands from the member (slight exaggeration). These effects lasted for 24 hours.<br /><br />I did have slight side effects like a headache afterwards but after doing some research and talking to my doctor, he said it was fine and temporary. <br /><br />He recommended when taking the Dr Max powers HGH Spray to drink lots of water. If you stay hydrated, this spray is pretty darn good! Pretty much a woody on demand!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-86437114088605646702007-07-22T08:59:00.000+01:002007-07-22T08:59:00.000+01:00I decided to bring the preceding anonymous comment...I decided to bring the preceding anonymous comment to eveyone's attention with <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2007/07/more-about-condoms-and-erection.html" REL="nofollow">a short posting</A>, because most of my readers probably won't spot this query here.<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-45365583789046411532007-07-22T02:21:00.000+01:002007-07-22T02:21:00.000+01:00I have the same problem too as your BF and b/c of ...I have the same problem too as your BF and b/c of that, at 36 I have been a bottom for 20 years, when in fact there is a big part of me that is all top that I want to experience. And for me it comes from pressure put on me by early sex partners, which I put on myself subsequently throughout my life. I have been seeing a therapist and am trying to find someone I feel safe enough to try with who will not make me feel bad if it doesn't go well. You seem like he could be very safe with you. <BR/><BR/>As for me, if anyone has any advice on how they overcame this psychological block, please post. thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-76699647540990256862007-06-01T02:05:00.000+01:002007-06-01T02:05:00.000+01:00Suggestions are appreciated by other readers- if i...Suggestions are appreciated by other readers- if it helps the author of the letter, I have the same problem your boyfriend does! (Mine is a body image thing.) I gave up trying to deal with it, and since I haven't yet gotten the knack for bottoming, I tried to meet guys who enjoyed other activities more, but I definitely get some strong reactions when I told them I'm not interested in topping or bottoming. I think I've got to be go totally bottom, or say good bye to a love life!<BR/><BR/>Couples' counseling might help, and I haven't yet explored this path, but "sensate focus" as a technique may be one approach. The clinical nature of putting on a condom can dim the mood pretty quickly, so trying to sexualize the act of putting on the condom may set the atmosphere for keeping the erection throughout the lovemaking act. Perhaps examining other types/brands of condoms?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-48298751009984489022007-05-13T15:40:00.000+01:002007-05-13T15:40:00.000+01:00LOL anonymous, I haven't gone celibate! But I am ...LOL <STRONG>anonymous</STRONG>, I haven't gone celibate! But I am trying to focus on a small number of boyfriends, rather than <EM>playing the field</EM> on gaydar or wherever. I've kinda got bored of that for now. So since I don't invent stories, at the moment I'm most likely to post stuff in the <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Boyfriends" REL="nofollow">Boyfriends</A>, <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Gay%20Life" REL="nofollow">Gay Life</A> and the <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Dear%20GB" REL="nofollow">Dear GB</A> categories, rather than the <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/search/label/Encounters" REL="nofollow">Encounters</A> catagory.<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-34788296436682204622007-05-13T11:59:00.000+01:002007-05-13T11:59:00.000+01:00I like all the advice but we miss the stories abou...I like all the advice but we miss the stories about your adventures! Have you suddenly gone celibate, GB?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-58395080951834707832007-05-12T00:14:00.000+01:002007-05-12T00:14:00.000+01:00I hate fretting with lube. Between making sure my...I hate fretting with lube. Between making sure my partner is comfortable and then wiping my hands before <I>getting down to business</I> I get distracted and start fretting about staying hard.<BR/><BR/>When this happens we lie together nuzzling and gently biting his neck, doing erotic things to his shoulders with my beard, stroking his body and taking my time enjoying the feeling of him. Having relaxed and focused on how sexy he is, we have a great time.<BR/><BR/>Don't give up too quickly. Once he has the condom on, carry on playing until he gets hard again. Ask him about his fantasies. Don't let him give up either.Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.com