tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post3370876689577178803..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a gay American guy with relationship problemsGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-85222599773201542742007-06-13T16:54:00.000+01:002007-06-13T16:54:00.000+01:00Great post - as we have come to expect.It seems yo...Great post - as we have come to expect.<BR/>It seems your reader has a few things to consider and I think you have addressed this well. What seems reasonably clear is that he and his 'ex' have some communication issues. Sometimes after a prolonged time in a relationship you can exist together without really talking about things that are important - often incorrectly assuming you know what the other person is thinking. It's important to be specific about your feelings and thoughts and communicate those. It's a good time now for him to talk openly, and encourage the same from his 'ex'. Sometimes taking yourself back to the times when you first started dating - and looking for that person and treating them like you would have then, can bring back the power of the emotions, and the rest (eg sex)can follow. They need to be secure in their own relationship firstly before embarking on an open relationship though - or it is destined to fail.Superchilledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00480825797997399121noreply@blogger.com