tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post5120150763501160140..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a guy with feelings for a male friendGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-18356232392275132102009-06-14T16:07:39.916+01:002009-06-14T16:07:39.916+01:00Been here first time...
Being bi-curious myself I...Been here first time...<br /><br />Being bi-curious myself I adore gays...you guys are really creativePesto Saucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07644344820243182801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-58220763311972548732009-06-13T22:07:15.448+01:002009-06-13T22:07:15.448+01:00I completely agree with all of GB's comments.
...I completely agree with all of GB's comments.<br /><br />AntonyAntonyhttp://www.antonysimpson.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-44685074509781310232009-06-13T19:11:20.499+01:002009-06-13T19:11:20.499+01:00For an alternative take on this Str8/gay thing che...For an alternative take on this Str8/gay thing check out my gay blog fuel-injected-male.blogspot.com/ <br /><br />In the Search field at the top of the blog, type in "Yeah I'm Straight" for the posting that I wrote on it.Fuel Mixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05038662228198556616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-3146658782784663632009-06-10T13:09:52.025+01:002009-06-10T13:09:52.025+01:00Did you have 'feelings' other than friends...Did you have 'feelings' other than friendship for him <i>before</i> the night together or is this something new?<br /><br />My perspective is going to be totally unhelpful, I'm afraid.<br /><br />If he's just coming to terms with being gay/bi then the chances are he'll either want to experiment with it <i>now</i> or <i>later</i>. As such, I doubt he's a good prospect for a long term relationship at this point, unless you want it to be an open one, which might freak <i>him</i> out.<br /><br />If I were The Reader I'd force myself to hang back and take it easy. Be supportive and communicate. Hell, even fool around with him if it feels right, but certainly don't push for anything more at this point in his development.<br /><br />Now, what if <i>he</i> pushes for a relationship? Well, tread carefully and go into it with your eyes open. <br /><br />Having said that, I had a friend at Uni who was totally hot and who I would whack off thinking about (while he was banging his girlfriends in the next room). After school we got together and he told me he thought he might be gay because he didn't have much luck sticking with one girl. He laid the opportunity to screw his brains out right there in front of me and I <i>passed</i> because a) I had just started dating someone and b) I knew he was straight and c) I didn't want to risk our friendship.<br /><br />In hindsight, I <i>so</i> should have taken the shot :-)<br /><br />HE WAS HOT!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-19398785323120952542009-06-10T09:44:11.859+01:002009-06-10T09:44:11.859+01:00I fully agree with the GB that the story of the Bi...I fully agree with the GB that the story of the Big Love should be better left for some later time. <br /><br />Equally so, pushing the envelope to far will be far less productive than doing the 'baby steps' as recommended by the GB. <br /><br />If possible, I would try to impress upon the reader's friend two points: <br /><br />First off, it may be useful to put the things into a bit broader prospective. The sun still rises every morning, and sets every evening, too. Adopting a healthy dose of personal humility by recognizing that the whole universe does not turn around me and my self-discoveries may be very helpful. It may reduce the amount of dramatic suffering many people experience largely as an inappropriately high price for being raised to be very self-centered. <br /><br />Second off, being gay within the context of western European and north American urban cultures these days happens to be an issue of minimal gravity at its best. No one above the spiritual age of ten sees this as matter worth of any serious concern whatsoever. <br /><br />Putting it in the proverbial nutshell: <br /><br />"Dude, you are bi- or gay or whatever? No one really cares, we all wish you good luck, so feel free to cut off the drama, and move on."<br /><br />SCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com