tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post5344790444990871842..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a gay guy in love with a childhood friendGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-71259155573142040302011-10-06T16:56:53.583+01:002011-10-06T16:56:53.583+01:00If you're not a stalker: distance, past non-se...If you're not a stalker: distance, past non-sexual history etc make it seem unlikely that anything will happen in the near future. <br /><br />If you're just stalking, stop it! :)<br /><br />Having said that, common wisdom says that when you get old, mostly you regret the things you didn't do rather than the things you did. <br /><br />Pretty non-committal, huh?One London Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03967673503081417260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-87620389356269510642011-10-03T19:49:29.743+01:002011-10-03T19:49:29.743+01:00Still blogging mrg, albeit infrequently!
GB xxxStill blogging <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/06410323997825677478" rel="nofollow">mrg</a>, albeit infrequently!<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-21402036551012741382011-10-03T18:06:03.309+01:002011-10-03T18:06:03.309+01:00Hey - you still blogging? I love this blog!Hey - you still blogging? I love this blog!mrghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06410323997825677478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-33012370278026162022011-09-28T13:11:04.137+01:002011-09-28T13:11:04.137+01:00I never said that "only one person could ever...I never said that "only one person could ever be right for me".<br />Just that I'll never share my adolescence again with someone else and that's a very natural and non-obsessive assumption :)<br />Thanks for your advice, guys.<br /><br />- The ReaderAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-9111314155891357452011-09-22T23:52:58.877+01:002011-09-22T23:52:58.877+01:00I think GB has it right - the obsessive assumption...I think GB has it right - the obsessive assumption that there is only 'the one' for the reader suggests an understandable but essentially unbalanced view of what a good relationship could look like. How to cure the obsession is another matter, but perhaps starting to think about whether it can really be the case that 'only one person could ever be right for me' might be a start.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-90035133138613694102011-09-19T00:49:19.990+01:002011-09-19T00:49:19.990+01:00If it happens, It will happen. If the opportunity ...If it happens, It will happen. If the opportunity is here go for it. What matters the most is that you don't regret later on for not trying!m4mhttp://mym4m.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-84758742616238687592011-09-14T14:22:49.161+01:002011-09-14T14:22:49.161+01:00There isn't any way of knowing, so he'll h...There isn't any way of knowing, so he'll have to ask himself if it's worth the risk of losing a really close friend if they start something and it doesn't work out. But trying to reel in the obsessive behaviour can only be a good thing. Hope things work out ok for him, it's a crappy situation to be in.Rylanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06311308560636802474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-36034226824360769042011-09-13T11:33:16.147+01:002011-09-13T11:33:16.147+01:00If/when the opportunity presents itself, go for it...If/when the opportunity presents itself, go for it. You never know, things might turn out great. If it doesn't, what the hell. At least no one will be left wondering "what if..."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com