tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post6722484061669881702..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a gay guy who works in the CityGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-54300397683853448212007-11-12T11:17:00.000+00:002007-11-12T11:17:00.000+00:00Give your money away dude and start all over again...Give your money away dude and start all over again. <BR/>Go do some Charity work.Tales of the Cityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13182054767759882522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-7836090733573057592007-11-12T06:08:00.000+00:002007-11-12T06:08:00.000+00:00One simple solution...he could marry me and be "al...One simple solution...he could marry me and be "altruistic" by keeping me in the style to which I would love to become accustomed!!! :-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-87366848488981684732007-11-11T11:29:00.000+00:002007-11-11T11:29:00.000+00:00It sounds like this 'young gay man' has a pretty b...It sounds like this 'young gay man' has a pretty bright head on his shoulders. But I agree with you GB that perhaps he needs to be more challenged than he currently is. This though may be more than just in his work environment. It sounds like he has a lot of people who respect him - but I'm not sure how many of these he truly respects. Certainly I wonder whether any of the people in his life really challenge him, make him use all his facilities to work through to a higher level. Perhaps the challenge for him is to find those people who make him think differently - who have a different perspective - and that can be gleaned from all kinds of interaction outside his norm. But how to step outside his normal environment? A new career? A new business or charitable organisation that he could create? Stepping sideways with his skills into a whole other dimension where he feels like a fish out of water...? <BR/><BR/>One of my mantras is '<I>do something each day that scares you</I>' - it will take you all kinds of places, but through it, a better person you will become.Superchilledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00480825797997399121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-51512221677158898792007-11-10T14:28:00.000+00:002007-11-10T14:28:00.000+00:00I see a contrast with your recent post about turmo...I see a contrast with your recent post about <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2007/11/turmoil-stress-creativity.html" REL="nofollow">turmoil, stress and creativity</A>. Perhaps things are too easy for your reader.<BR/><BR/>If you want an interesting life, go live somewhere that is not in Europe or North America for a few years. Making a new life after moving countries is quite a challenge. You can always come back to London when the going gets too tough...Sir Wobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10329220412552005890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-12689147108325645302007-11-10T11:14:00.000+00:002007-11-10T11:14:00.000+00:00a tour de force response - Maslow, Dickens and Spi...a tour de force response - Maslow, Dickens and Spiderman !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.com