tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post688902616943719448..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Email from a guy who wants an open relationshipGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-39934478417530479592012-12-12T18:03:43.120+00:002012-12-12T18:03:43.120+00:00This letter could have been written by me. Althou...This letter could have been written by me. Although I am not financially dependant on my partner, I am in a similar position. I've been with my partner for 12 years - heck we even run a business together. Not quite high school sweet hearts but nonetheless, got together quite early in our gay lives... which means less experience with other men. All is great except - I want more sex. My partner won't even consider open relationships and once said that's for animals... So now I just have the odd hook up behind his back hoping I won't get caught. Is this difference in view worth ending a good relationship over? I guess fundamentally I am cheating which in the monogamous world is the worst thing... but I guess I am too liberal. There really is no answer. My behaviour is starting to upset me though... Don't like deceiving the one I love for my own physical sexual needs... What to do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com