tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post7283133099012519274..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Do you "have sex" or "make love"?GBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-77242639606206002772008-01-08T20:06:00.000+00:002008-01-08T20:06:00.000+00:00I had to make my profile private when I realised t...I had to make my profile private when I realised that I had been lying to the world that I was an accountant in Afghanistan all this while. Then again there are many accountants in Afghanisstan on Blogger!Masturbedroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27097090533067598092008-01-08T08:05:00.000+00:002008-01-08T08:05:00.000+00:00It turned out that this post was copied by BestGay...It turned out that this post was copied by BestGayBlogs.com as their <A HREF="http://bestgayblogs.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=1203&Itemid=1" REL="nofollow">Random post of the day</A> a couple of days ago :-). But of course, they altered the pic to a pic to a couple of topless guys who look as though they're about to make love to each other. I don't know, I'm just not that obvious LOL!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I see what you mean <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176" REL="nofollow">Masturbedroom</A>. And it would indeed be good if there was a paradigm shift in gay culture, but I can't see that happening. I also notice that you've done something to your blogger profile, it used to be visible, albeit as the least informative profile possible!<BR/><BR/>I agree <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08756920092344905031" REL="nofollow">Paul</A>, I reckon that unless the other person want to make love too, it's better just to have sex.<BR/><BR/>But I don't quite agree with you <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/03731646613560493499" REL="nofollow">CSS</A>, in the sense that I think it's possible to love more than one person at once. But then, you knew I'd say that didn’t you LOL.<BR/><BR/>Take care guys, GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-66571115745003733512008-01-06T12:50:00.000+00:002008-01-06T12:50:00.000+00:00i have always known this - but it has taken a blo...i have always known this - but it has taken a bloody long time to find someone worth 'making love' with as opposed to 'having sex' with. Sex with someone who you connect with is a lot of fun, but no, it doesnt compare to making love with that 1 special person in your life who you want to give everything over to.Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03731646613560493499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-77411973002854166392008-01-06T03:29:00.000+00:002008-01-06T03:29:00.000+00:00I always try to make love, but I think most of the...I always try to make love, but I think most of the time I'm deluding myself and end up just having sex. You can only make love with someone who is also playing the same game.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-24823351944569853042008-01-05T17:34:00.000+00:002008-01-05T17:34:00.000+00:00If you knew me in person GB I'd be intimidating!Wh...If you knew me in person GB I'd be intimidating!<BR/><BR/>What I meant was, I only make love to someone I already love, in which case even a kiss and a cuddle is an experience to be relished, nevermind the mechanics.<BR/><BR/>If, as you say, many young gays start out looking for love but end up being sheep, then there really needs to be a paradigm shift in gay culture. No more aiming to shag as many lads as possible before your first Botox appointment. Personally I think that can only be a good thing.Masturbedroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-76589534250638862532008-01-05T07:56:00.000+00:002008-01-05T07:56:00.000+00:00I always find it a little scary Masturbedroom whe...I always find it a little scary <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176" REL="nofollow"> Masturbedroom</A> when some of my readers know my blog so well LOL! I think you're remembering <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2005/08/encounter-with-nervous-guy-in.html" REL="nofollow">my first <EM>encounter</EM> with boyfriend number 3</A> :-). But I do disagee with your idea that making love to another guy must mean anal sex because there's much more on the menu than that :-).<BR/><BR/>I know what you mean <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10102792994662043127" REL="nofollow">SP</A>, reducing sex to <EM>who</EM> does <EM>what</EM> to <EM>whom</EM> is very unromantic :-(. Anyway, Happy New Year to you too :-).<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-60170765163987558352008-01-05T00:05:00.000+00:002008-01-05T00:05:00.000+00:00Hey GB, Happy New Year!The whole mechanics and wha...Hey GB, Happy New Year!<BR/><BR/>The whole mechanics and what to say people in a cruisy situation always scares me, a few years ago I had a few drinks and plucked up the courage to go to a sauna, clocked a guy I liked and his first question was 'So What are you into?' and to be honest I had no idea what to say! Don't get me wrong I love sex and i'm always happy to try loads of different things, but to put it into words for me just seems to take something away from it if that makes any sense whatsoever! SP xStephen Pendredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10102792994662043127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-60887349862703989572008-01-04T01:10:00.000+00:002008-01-04T01:10:00.000+00:00If I can recall correctly from your "Encounters" p...If I can recall correctly from your "Encounters" posts they seem to collectively infer that you don't do anything involving the back passage with casual partners, but I could well be absolutely off the mark! If it's true though then that helps place less emphasis on the mechanics. Ironically I think that love is made in its presence rather than absence.Masturbedroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08050274727685864176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-17042902499987614322008-01-03T22:09:00.000+00:002008-01-03T22:09:00.000+00:00Good post GB! And thanks for putting down your pe...Good post GB! And thanks for putting down your personal experiences on paper (well, electronic paper anyway)...it's always interesting, particularly for a relative "newbie" like me. :-) I must say, I need a connection with a guy, a way to emotionally and mentally link (and like) before I want to progress to the more physical side of things. Bring on the Making of Love I say! :-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-52877876405412751362008-01-03T22:08:00.000+00:002008-01-03T22:08:00.000+00:00No Tommo, you can't draw any conclusions LOL! Alt...No Tommo, you can't draw any conclusions LOL! Although I put a title into that pic which reveals itself when the mouse hovers over it, it was just a joke. If you can choose one of those hanky styles and then go and find an image of a guy in a suit with that hanky, you're some sort of superhero because that was the only suit + hanky pic I found!<BR/><BR/>Yeah <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/07614893991088767916" REL="nofollow">Pete</A>, it's my experience too that if you just focus on the role you're after, then that's all you usually get!<BR/><BR/>And very nicely put <B>mike</B>, I agree with you too :-)<BR/><BR/>Take care, GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-80460068961847814352008-01-03T20:17:00.000+00:002008-01-03T20:17:00.000+00:00there is certainly a difference between making lov...there is certainly a difference between making love and just sex. I'm in a long term monogomous relationship and for the longest time I wanted to just once have some fun outside of the relationship. When I eventually did, it was very much having sex, and to my surprise I wasn't as turned on as I thought I would be. The certainty of sex, the lack of getting to know each other, and the lack of seduction made me realise how lucky I was to be able to make love to someone I really love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-89102464711513649132008-01-03T17:28:00.000+00:002008-01-03T17:28:00.000+00:00How true. I've tried the "mechanics" too often tr...How true. I've tried the "mechanics" too often trying to find out if there was anything else on offer. Usually, there wasn't.Petehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07614893991088767916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-74891366844178764802008-01-03T08:27:00.000+00:002008-01-03T08:27:00.000+00:00That's a fantastic thing to have in a profile... I...That's a fantastic thing to have in a profile... I'm tempted to copy it myself!<BR/><BR/>BTW - Can we draw any conclusions from the choice of hanky colour chosen for the illustration.... The shade isn't 100% clear per your link, but can we assume our own GB is in fact a sailor?! ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com