tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post755559443921745672..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Hot boyfriendsGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-37477715204082141502009-11-23T18:47:35.858+00:002009-11-23T18:47:35.858+00:00Actually, most recent anonymous commenter (whoever...Actually, most recent anonymous commenter (whoever you are), I think it's only indirectly related to economic power. Instead, I think it's directly related to the media, and the worldwide distribution of things like American films and culture which ends up affecting the way people think about themselves. If that gets reversed, so that the USA is full of Chinese and other Asian films and culture, then the racism will be the other way round ("No Caucasians please" etc). Anyway, I think you're wrong in suggesting that this is a racist point of view. Instead this is a comment about the causes of racism.<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-4268261493412832702009-11-23T18:20:12.313+00:002009-11-23T18:20:12.313+00:00My experience has been that younger white gay men ...My experience has been that younger white gay men usually add the "No asians please" in their ads. But, as they grow older and they don't get any hot white guys, they go for the younger asian guys. The asian guys, on the other hand, who may have a low self esteem, due to being rejected by a lot of white men, feel a sense of achievement, when they are chased by a white man, even though the white man is older. In a way, this satisfies both parties in a very warped and weird way. It seems as though the asian guys satisfy GB's need to have sex with younger guys.<br />GB's comment that "if Asia takes over from the West as the centre of the world economy ... then perhaps in 50 years time we'll be seeing Asian guys putting "No Caucasians please" on their profiles!" reeks of racism. It implies that because whites currently have the economic power they can dictate who they want or do not want, and maybe in 50 years asians might have that power. Sad!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-38213327642053603552009-11-23T17:18:23.218+00:002009-11-23T17:18:23.218+00:00It must be very confusing for P that you won't...It must be very confusing for P that you won't/haven't slept with him, GB, as it is for me. Reading this blog, one would think you shag any guy who moves towards you, and you clearly like asian men. Wouldn't mind a blog post on why you won't sleep with someone - that would be an interesting change of pace...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-56628080612792260402009-11-23T16:34:09.468+00:002009-11-23T16:34:09.468+00:00I'm the first anonymous. It's not so much ...I'm the first anonymous. It's not so much the 'racism', which is a whole different matter, that I was focusing on, but rather the need among Asian men to seek sexual approval of others. <br /><br />Putting it in a different way, I also detest men who go "I'm (race/age/height/weight here), is that alright with you?" I find that incredibly off putting. I'm pretty open minded with regards to men and I am quite prepared to talk if they are interesting enough characters despite their own perceived shortcomings. If I'm not interested I will find a way of letting them know, either by hinting or direct rejection but trying to pre-empt me and my prejudices just reeks of insecurity. Not to mention it's an accusation of shallowness on my part, which does not bode well for the rest of the potential conversation. Just say hi and see what happens, you can't go much wrong with that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-60967368473896730962009-11-23T02:19:53.328+00:002009-11-23T02:19:53.328+00:00I don't know why this race issue has been brou...I don't know why this race issue has been brought up again and again by some readers...especially GB's main point of the entry is "family oriented is very Hot" <br /><br />Seriously those haters just stop grumbling. Love whoever you love, I'd take any asian,black,white,indian or any other races as long as he is THE PERSON I loveShawn Lnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-44711053076817999432009-11-22T19:17:53.073+00:002009-11-22T19:17:53.073+00:00If Asia takes over from the West as the centre of ...If Asia takes over from the West as the centre of the world economy during the 21st centruy, asian anonymous, then perhaps in 50 years time we'll be seeing Asian guys putting "No Caucasians please" on their profiles!<br /><br />Second and third commenter - I can't work out why you're so jealous of me? Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read my blog and to leave comments :-).<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-5353225799443781342009-11-22T18:59:00.994+00:002009-11-22T18:59:00.994+00:00As long as GB is anonymous and does not reveal who...As long as GB is anonymous and does not reveal who he is, this blog remains a scam and all the entries are pure phantasies! If he really would have courage, he would lift the curtain and stand in the open light. But then the tone would have to change and all the slut stories - boyfriend A to who knows - would have to stop.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-22108184054096546772009-11-22T18:55:52.377+00:002009-11-22T18:55:52.377+00:00who is more of a slut?? the guy who brags with boy...who is more of a slut?? the guy who brags with boyfriends A to Z (all a scam anyway..) or an Asian guy who is naturally curious. We just can hope that not too many straight thinking folks read this blog (and then why should they anyway!)it confirms about any negative image gay people still have (righteously) in the society. Promiscuous, selfcentred, narcisstic, paranoid sluts who think with their dicks rather their goodgiven brains! Gays are detestable and have no responsabilites what so ever!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-45818435138552371162009-11-22T12:11:56.279+00:002009-11-22T12:11:56.279+00:00Speaking as an Asian (East not South) it makes me ...Speaking as an Asian (East not South) it makes me cringe with shame how often fellow Asian men straight and gay feel the need to ask men and women of other races (usually white) if they are into Asians. It just smacks of desperation and low self-confidence, which makes the menfolk of the entire Asian race look rather needy and lame. I'm not sure what prompts such questions, perhaps the ubiquitous "No Asians please" line on personals websites has chipped away at the self-worth of their Asian members - it certainly feels like a slap in the face for me - but need we sink so low as to appeal to their sense of social and moral justice by putting them in the uncomfortable position of answering an awkwardly racially loaded question, rather than attracting them with what we have, physically or mentally, in our search for company?asian anonymousnoreply@blogger.com