tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post7599156931114205212..comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Comments on Gay Banker: Such naughtiness!GBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-46877338554720687282008-12-07T12:25:00.000+00:002008-12-07T12:25:00.000+00:00IAN: any way I could find out which gym you go to ...IAN: any way I could find out which gym you go to that has 2 male change rooms with sauna and steam? I know it's not proper for to list them by name on this site, but maybe you could give me a clue, postcode or street address? Would be interested in joining!<BR/><BR/>GB: thanks for your great wit and wisdom -- and to all your commentators for their insightful contributions.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06414247601063839641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-76206317378281939002008-12-02T20:54:00.000+00:002008-12-02T20:54:00.000+00:00Hi GB. I've been increasingly aware of the slight...Hi GB. I've been increasingly aware of the slightly sexual atmosphere in my gym and have been looking for something to confirm my suspicions. I've always noticed a bit of cruisiness, but I was starting to pick up a slightly charged feeling. There are two male changing rooms in my gym, both with their own saunas and steam rooms, and I had gravitated towards the more out of the way, less easy to find one, perhaps like the other users. <BR/>I now understand why all those guys were sitting in the sauna, and weren't worried that it wasn't actually hot. <BR/>I never thought that walking into the steam room would actually result, while I was sitting there meekly, too scared to cruise anyone, in cessation of sauna fun for everyone else!<BR/>I feel much more confident now in the idea of participating but I have one question. I can't get over the possibility that a straight guy would walk in and catch me having fun. How do you deal with this particular problem? I can't imagine that someone could walk in and not notice? Any ideas on how to deal with this would be most appreciated.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-50600408623129605242008-08-31T08:36:00.000+01:002008-08-31T08:36:00.000+01:00Developing a good gaydar is just practice, Jay.Tha...Developing a good gaydar is just practice, Jay.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for putting me straight on that, michael. So I've now done <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2008/08/am-i-making-it-all-up.html" REL="nofollow">a poll</A> to find out how many other readers there are like you who don't believe me!<BR/><BR/>I've seen that kind of behaviour in London too <A HREF="http://dragonzlad.wordpress.com" REL="nofollow">DL</A>, but only very rarely.<BR/><BR/>I actually like that kind of layout for gym showers St. In that situation cruising is easier, but of course the result would need to be a <EM>take away</EM>!<BR/><BR/>LOL damien, very funny!<BR/><BR/>As I recall, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308" REL="nofollow">Monty</A>, you're quite a cool operator yourself!<BR/><BR/>I think that's a very well observed comment, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561" REL="nofollow">Kenski</A>. The naughtiness concept must have something to do with this. Cruising in a straight gym is intrinsically naughty and hence more fun, whereas in gay gyms it's conceptually less naughty and hence less fun!<BR/><BR/>I think you're missing out by not using gym showers, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05343698383042310684" REL="nofollow">Oliver</A>. What happened to me here was amusing and quite harmless!<BR/><BR/>I think that kind of behavioiur, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173" REL="nofollow">Close Encounters</A>, occurs when a guy hasn't fully accepted that he's gay yet. He's just starting to work out that he enjoys <EM>fooling around</EM> with other guys, but if he was to do that back home he'd have to admit to himself that he's gay!<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-88127100089270459152008-08-27T00:18:00.000+01:002008-08-27T00:18:00.000+01:00GB, I've also encountered blokes who seem up for s...GB, I've also encountered blokes who seem up for some fun, but not interested in getting together outside the gym ... very strange !<BR/><BR/>Kenski, interesting insight into gay gyms - i'm definitely sticking to straight ones !close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-15717021163685907372008-08-26T23:20:00.000+01:002008-08-26T23:20:00.000+01:00And people wonder why I never use my gym's showers...And people wonder why I never use my gym's showers.<BR/><BR/>.....pink oboe, cute.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-52993411503050322752008-08-26T16:36:00.000+01:002008-08-26T16:36:00.000+01:00It's funny but I've belonged to both str8 and gay ...It's funny but I've belonged to both str8 and gay gyms and in my experience the str8 ones are <I>way</I> more cruisy and sexually charged. And yes, there does seem to be a lot more furtive behaviour going on. <BR/><BR/>If anything, the gay ones seem more focussed on actually working out. The people there are serious about being there to improve their physique.<BR/><BR/>Also, if someone's displaying themselves in a gay gym then they can't really get huffy if someone else looks, furtively or otherwise.Ken Skinnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02970490152285414561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-56370922567692678272008-08-26T00:45:00.000+01:002008-08-26T00:45:00.000+01:00Oh you GB, you're such a minx! ;-)Oh you GB, you're such a minx! ;-)Montyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535444453211857308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-76656734148322454842008-08-25T22:04:00.000+01:002008-08-25T22:04:00.000+01:00hm, gb no surprise that the capital markets are in...hm, gb no surprise that the capital markets are in turmoil, if you spend so much time under the shower and such a friendly take over happens......<BR/>damienAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27427807698773712172008-08-25T19:12:00.000+01:002008-08-25T19:12:00.000+01:00Well, my gym showers have no curtains at all - jus...Well, my gym showers have no curtains at all - just dormitory style shower heads in a row. While this helps in observing a surfeit of pink oboes, it does put a cramp on anything further. Maybe we must ask them to install some curtains.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-25941996393801531402008-08-25T17:20:00.000+01:002008-08-25T17:20:00.000+01:00Your comment here reminds of this guy in my gym wh...Your comment here reminds of this guy in my gym who likes to jack off in the shower. He is like a pseudo-exhibitionist as he is aware that people can see his silhouette through the cubicle's frosted glass door. I haven't seen him for a while now. I hope he hasn't been busted for his activities. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-25673278071827539852008-08-25T15:00:00.000+01:002008-08-25T15:00:00.000+01:00that was not a compliment gb a think you got a hel...that was not a compliment gb a think you got a hell of an imaginationAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-41412997459342857872008-08-25T13:54:00.000+01:002008-08-25T13:54:00.000+01:00How rather brazen! I don't know how you seem to do...How rather brazen! I don't know how you seem to do it GB. You must have one awesome gaydar which everyone would want.<BR/><BR/>JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-28329527587824563222008-08-25T13:32:00.000+01:002008-08-25T13:32:00.000+01:00Thanks for your compliments Michael :-). I'm not ...Thanks for your compliments Michael :-). I'm not sure I could write a novel though. If I have a skill for describing some of the things that happen to me, I reckon inventing good stories is a different skill, because I promise you it all happened exactly like I described! But if I hadn't been thinking about <A HREF="http://gaybanker.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-do-gay-guys-recognise-each-other.html" REL="nofollow">last week's post</A> and the importance of eye contact, it probably wouldn't have happened.<BR/><BR/>This was the gym near my home <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08680924058987036459" REL="nofollow">HBH</A>, rather than the one near the bank where I work which has that sauna where <EM>activities</EM> can occur.<BR/><BR/>I didn't feel comfortable doing any else with the guy in the shower area, <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10299824748439002238" REL="nofollow">Syafeeq</A>, so I caught his eye again and tried to suggest elsewhere. But unfortunately <A HREF="http://www.blogger.com/profile/08577070590597961929" REL="nofollow">David</A>, it wasn't possible. Actually, he might have been the kind of guy that feels uncomfortable doing gay things in a private 1-2-1 situation, so he satisfies some of his urges by feeling up other guys in the showers!<BR/><BR/>GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-9624951346673886742008-08-25T12:49:00.000+01:002008-08-25T12:49:00.000+01:00wow your hot stuff GB! The poor guy could resist. ...wow your hot stuff GB! The poor guy could resist. You should have had a little fun with him after that.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08577070590597961929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-41587666587954324482008-08-25T12:30:00.000+01:002008-08-25T12:30:00.000+01:00i think afterwards he woke up..lol..i think afterwards he woke up..lol..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-12726357881965403122008-08-25T12:23:00.000+01:002008-08-25T12:23:00.000+01:00what happens afterwards :p ?what happens afterwards :p ?Syafeeqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10299824748439002238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-7162449350602864232008-08-25T12:03:00.000+01:002008-08-25T12:03:00.000+01:00Which gym do you go to?? =) I've just moved to Lo...Which gym do you go to?? =) I've just moved to London from Singapore and have been hunting for a nice gym to go to, yours certainly will be on top of my list!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-27833591148533700172008-08-25T11:27:00.000+01:002008-08-25T11:27:00.000+01:00Ooo, your gym shower is def more cruisey than mine...Ooo, your gym shower is def more cruisey than mine. xxxHumming Bird in Hydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08680924058987036459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-86871367460628006592008-08-25T11:02:00.000+01:002008-08-25T11:02:00.000+01:00you should right a novel, your fantasy are far bey...you should right a novel, your fantasy are far beyond of what i expect from you, am sure you will be the gay danielle steel of the year, oh good lord, you are good:)<BR/>Michael.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com