tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.comments2024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Gay BankerGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comBlogger5933125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-47870364603888821612024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:002024-01-08T00:18:57.750+00:00Heello mate nice blogHeello mate nice blogQveen Bralliehttps://qveen-brallie.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-81189336948013463092023-11-27T07:09:20.011+00:002023-11-27T07:09:20.011+00:00Nice post thaanks for sharingNice post thaanks for sharingEllie Rae's Military Retro Bloghttps://ellieraesmilitaryretro.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-82863462581749428682023-11-25T23:31:25.233+00:002023-11-25T23:31:25.233+00:00Great post thank yoouGreat post thank yoouEllie Rae's Military Retro Bloghttps://ellieraesmilitaryretro.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-87431079770503321432023-11-01T12:49:46.023+00:002023-11-01T12:49:46.023+00:00I know through my old stuff and that of my teenage...I know through my old stuff and that of my teenage boys that when under 25years old you are still trying to work out who you are and how you fit in the world around you. So part of the way to protect yourself is to act confidently even if on the inside you feel like jelly. This may come across as arrogance but I have noticed that if get to know the person there is a genuine soul behind that defence who wants to be accepted and happy.Steve Haroldhttps://therapists.lgbtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-6144109271645179552023-10-29T17:35:52.812+00:002023-10-29T17:35:52.812+00:00Coming out is fine if one is financially stable. I...Coming out is fine if one is financially stable. If he is still living with his parents (quite often the case in Asia) he will need to be sure of living on his own once he breaks the news and also be prepared for more stress and heartache for a couple of years. <br />There are additional complications or losses in coming out in Asian societies than in Western societies including being the “bad apple” in the family and a sibling forever replacing you in the family set up. However while some of these problems will never go away with time, I would still advise coming out since the stress of not doing so, far outweighs these permanent losses. Unfortunately we are all dealt different cards in life and we must make the most of what we have. Gay people in conservative countries will have to bear this cross and deal with these additional consequences of coming out till things change for the betterTKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-61319792423753592182023-10-27T17:32:10.219+01:002023-10-27T17:32:10.219+01:00On the subject of coming out ... whilst we all hav...On the subject of coming out ... whilst we all have to choose the right time based on our own circumstances ... we need to recognise that the longer we stay in the closet, the greater the danger to our own mental health.<br /><br />A deeply closeted young guy was just convicted in Ireland for murdering two men that he met on Grindr last year. Whilst this is obviously not a normal consequence of being closeted / self hating ... I see lower level versions of this all the time when I visit Ireland (and even sometimes in London).<br /><br />The bottom line is that being closeted is bad for you.<br /><br />https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce7jpwrp6lzoclose encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-16144968363768874572023-10-27T16:42:45.156+01:002023-10-27T16:42:45.156+01:00Thanks for the comment RB. I actually went to lea...Thanks for the comment <a href="https://ijustwannabehappy2.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">RB</a>. I actually went to leave a comment on your blog yesterday but the system wouldn't let me login and said that I had to leave an anonymous comment. Anyway, sorry to hear about Scenario 3, I went through 3 redundancies in my career end never enjoyed it.<br /><br />Regarding Asian boyfriends, I had a similar problem with my ex-boyfriend T who wouldn't come out to his family either. That definitely contributed to our split, because he was forced back to his home country from the UK. But I've now been with boyfriend K for 10 years, and at this stage, his family all know that we're a gay couple.<br /><br />Sounds like your bf's sister didn't help very much. But if she won't let him come out, surely she should support him and tell everyone that he's very happy as he is and that they should all leave him alone.<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-91771204393900662932023-10-27T15:50:08.058+01:002023-10-27T15:50:08.058+01:00Thanks for your post. I'm a Caucasian guy, 5...Thanks for your post. I'm a Caucasian guy, 50's, in ok shape (24 BMI). I've dated a lot of Asian guys. I would describe myself as an introverted guy in a quantitative field. Tends to be a better personality fit for me. I like the look....smooth bodies and jet black hair. I've met guys from I think every Asian country....except N Korea :). <br /><br />Anyway, for pretty much all the guys I've dated it's always the same story. They cannot come out to their families, huge pressure to get married and have kids. I have a bf now. He's 35 (and awesome in bed). He has to return to near Xi'an, China for a major family event. He is dreading the trip because everyone will be asking him "where's your wife?" His father is literally screaming at him to get married. <br /><br />Sometimes the parents just figure it out. But my bf is not obviously gay. My gaydar wouldn't go off. My bf says he doesn't even think his parents know of the concept of "gay".<br /><br />Earlier this year he decided to come out to his parents. He first discussed this with his sister. She knows he's gay and figured this out on her own. "NO! You can't do this. It will crush them!!" was the reaction. So he didn't.<br /><br />I feel so bad for him. He is so torn up about this. "I'm 35 years old and unmarried. All my family will view me as a total loser."<br /><br />I don't know what to do to help him.<br /><br />A Korean guy I dated succumbed to his parent's INTENSE pressure. He's married now and has a kid. Still playing around in secret though.<br /><br />My Malaysian ex-bf has lived in Europe for more than fifteen years. He has a long-term bf. He's distanced himself from his family even though he was very close to them.<br /><br />The Burmese guy I dated keeps on dodging the bullet. His family finds a woman for an arranged marriage and he finds way out of it. We've talked about this extensively, and he is also really torn up inside.<br /><br />My bf lives in Canada and part of the time with me in the US. He's distancing himself from family. I don't know what to do to help him. The pressure from his father will only get worse, and it's already bad. We keep discussing crazy solutions. An actress to play the part of gf?<br /><br /><br /><br />RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-51687857018548920072023-10-27T11:31:37.930+01:002023-10-27T11:31:37.930+01:00I agree with GB about young guys - I actively avoi...I agree with GB about young guys - I actively avoid guys under 25 because so many of them consider themselves god's gift and are flaky!<br /><br />One specific piece of advice about losing weight:<br />"I have to starve myself and workout every day and I barely lose any weight"<br />No you don't - although you will feel hungry at times! Use an app to track the food that you're eating and you will be shocked. Focus on sugar (not fat) and set an achievable target (losing half a kilo a week for example). I use one called "My Fitness Pal" from time to time and am regularly surprised at what I learn!<br /><br />I'm not surprised your reader is lonely - he mentions that none of his friends or family knows he's gay, he doesn't go to gay clubs, and he doesn't use gay dating apps.<br />Maybe he could find a gym with a men only steam room - they can be great fun, and from what I observe, can be a way of guys getting comfortable around naked guys. And using the gym itself is always good for your health!close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-77339506612272221862023-10-27T10:23:30.365+01:002023-10-27T10:23:30.365+01:00Sounds typical of many guys in Asian countries. Hi...Sounds typical of many guys in Asian countries. Highly closeted particularly to family and workplace. Wishing for a boyfriend yet is unwilling to actually take proactive steps to achieve it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-46744663996387560532023-10-26T18:19:45.431+01:002023-10-26T18:19:45.431+01:00Well, RB, there have to be exceptions that prove t...Well, <a href="https://ijustwannabehappy2.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">RB</a>, there have to be exceptions that prove the general rule! In fact I had another conversation about this a couple of months ago, and the guy I was talking to thought it was well know that most Korean guys are not usually well endowed. Anyway, I hope no one takes this as a slur against Korean guys, I've often said in my blog posts here that size it not at all important.<br /><br />GB xxx<br />P.S. @Anonymous commenter on 7th June: indeed, I am still alive.GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-66000712194149625362023-10-08T12:26:40.621+01:002023-10-08T12:26:40.621+01:00Thai boys are nice & sweet & all. However ...Thai boys are nice & sweet & all. However they are a bit weird and I don't think westerners can fit in with them culturally. In my opinion Singaporeans, Malaysians, Indians, Filipinos and maybe Taiwanese are more adaptable into western cultures if people have a fetish on Asians go for them. The rest like Thais, Indonesian, Vietnamese & even Japanese. Culturally they are too different than the west. Off course it all depends on the individual at the end of the day. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-40039724377656800452023-09-10T01:20:53.689+01:002023-09-10T01:20:53.689+01:00Thanks for writing thiisThanks for writing thiisSamurai Runnerhttps://samurairunner.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-16729284254165105212023-08-07T21:06:45.129+01:002023-08-07T21:06:45.129+01:00Very fun story! Although my personal experience wa...Very fun story! Although my personal experience was slightly different, Korea seems to have quite bigger specimens than other northern Asian countries.. Not sure my sample size and "P" value are enough though!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-84074890299671689302023-08-04T14:30:26.257+01:002023-08-04T14:30:26.257+01:00I think you hit the nail on the head when you said...I think you hit the nail on the head when you said you couldn't keep your trousers up. I also think that it's harder to be a slut than you think. I believe that most men have inhibitions which prevent them from being a slut. The word "slut" has the connotation of a lack of self-control and a fear of missing out. That's just me. Sometimes I wish I could be more of a slut.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-3372866288194294262023-07-22T17:34:23.452+01:002023-07-22T17:34:23.452+01:00🌱 Witness the astounding growth of "Penny...🌱 Witness the astounding growth of "Penny's Growth" with PrimalGrowPro24! 🌱<br /><br />Discover the secret to a thriving and vibrant garden with Penny's Growth and PrimalGrowPro24! 🌿🌷<br /><br />🔗 Explore more at: https://primalgrowpro24.com/text.php#aff=SyanDebnath and unlock the potential of your plants today! 🌼🌳<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-49160493373319048032023-06-07T20:22:42.993+01:002023-06-07T20:22:42.993+01:00Yay GB you’re still here! I have missed your posts...Yay GB you’re still here! I have missed your posts. XxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-82200449141203149852023-05-23T01:36:00.338+01:002023-05-23T01:36:00.338+01:00Hi nice readingg your postHi nice readingg your postChocolate Chip Cookie Recipeshttps://www.cookiepins.com/chocolate-chip-cookies/sprinkle_chocolate_chip_cookies_4859584902.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-18655521638099785112023-03-26T14:42:13.791+01:002023-03-26T14:42:13.791+01:00Hey guys I'm for hire, in harlow Essex, comple...Hey guys I'm for hire, in harlow Essex, completely submissive, I'm 36, handsome and will pleasure you as you wish, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-19500567071187077102023-03-26T02:17:19.851+01:002023-03-26T02:17:19.851+01:00Not true! I've been with five Korean guys. ...Not true! I've been with five Korean guys. Some of the biggest cocks I've seen on Asian guys. One Korean guy had one of the biggest cocks I've seen on any guy! I was pleasantly surprised. I had Korean fwb for two years....he was bigger and really proud of it.RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761591668246881356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-78088508154075645422023-03-19T23:08:46.437+00:002023-03-19T23:08:46.437+00:00I fear that I don't have GB's encyclopaedi...I fear that I don't have GB's encyclopaedic knowledge of the subject !<br /><br />Or to put it another way, in the steam room, one doesn't normally discuss the precise ethnic origin of the guy that you've got your hands on !!close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-25671979417476844612023-03-19T22:49:56.391+00:002023-03-19T22:49:56.391+00:00Sounds like Close Encounters doesn't share the...Sounds like <a href="https://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173" rel="nofollow">Close Encounters</a> doesn't share the view that some Korean men are slightly <em>small</em>? Does <a href="https://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173" rel="nofollow">Close Encounters</a> have no view regarding how <em>size</em> correlates with nationality?<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-17255088344924439042023-03-19T02:49:39.889+00:002023-03-19T02:49:39.889+00:00no surprise that you found yourself having such a ...no surprise that you found yourself having such a conversation!<br /><br />you know the way there are stereotypes in certain countries about people from other countries being drunk (Russians / Poles / Irish etc.)<br /><br />I wonder if it's the same about dick size ...<br /><br />So for the nationality of the two women you spoke to ... Koreans are the ones with small dicks ...<br />But in Korea, presumably there is another country that they think of as having small dicks ?!close encountershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11493608927198507173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-73541413323555543992022-12-29T22:43:03.806+00:002022-12-29T22:43:03.806+00:00I think F**kbuddy is a very general word, Anonymou...I think F**kbuddy is a very general word, Anonymous commenter (whoever you are). The situation where someone in a long term relationship has a regular <em>activities</em> with someone else is much more specific!<br /><br />GB xxxGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07046768019709916759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10667700.post-48431146129106150052022-12-29T22:12:09.766+00:002022-12-29T22:12:09.766+00:00whatever happened to good old fashioned "F bu...whatever happened to good old fashioned "F bud"? :) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com