Sunday, June 29, 2008

A reader's first gay experience

For a couple of years now, I've been in occasional contact with an Asian reader of mine, mostly by email but including a few MSN conversations too. He's a guy who identifies as being gay, but until recently had never had a physical experience with another guy. Almost since we started communicating with each other I'd been trying to persuade him to find a nice guy for a bit of fun, so that he could find out whether he enjoys gay sex or not. Since he lives in a big American city with a large gay population, I reasoned that there must be at least one gay guy who he'd find attractive enough for a first experience!

Last week, he finally sent me an email to tell me that he'd had his first gay experience, in which he also described exactly what happened. I thought that his story might be useful to other guys who're in a similar position, such as the guy who was looking for light fun recently, so I managed to get my Asian reader's permission to post his email. It goes into more explicit detail that I usually post here so be warned. However if anyone does want to read the story of his first gay experience Click here.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

That was really interesting to read, because my experience was similar tto yours.
I never really felt much with a blowjob either and it was not what i was expecting. I think i was expecting my experience to be very passionate. What does everyone else think?

Sir Wobin said...

Each person has their own kind of tenderness and style of kissing. I also really dislike the "tongue like an erection" kissers, makes me gag. Eventually you'll find someone that fits just right; who makes you forget yourself and them as you get lost in a tender passionate kiss.

Be warned, you may have to try lots of frogs before you find your prince. Good hunting! :-)

SubtleKnife said...

Although my first time was alright, I didn't think it was all that special either. A large part - for me and perhaps for your reader - was that I was spending too much time about what I was supposed to be doing. Experience will help with that.

headbang8 said...

The guy's not unsure of his sexuality. He's just picky.

Dense said...

You can take the man out of Asia, but you cant take Asia out of the man

ALBiMale1975 said...

I am not a big oral fan as far as cumming. I love the sensation but it just does not get me there, but definitely would not turn it down.
I am fully with this guy on the relationship end though. I am 33 and have been with women but no men yet. I just can't do the sex and go thing. If I do not have feelings for the person I am with I might as not have sex at all because it is just unsatisfying.

tommy thomas said...

i had this crush on this guy(drake) in the 7th grade. So i put a note in his locker saying how i wanted to suck his dick and how i wanted him to fuck me. So when he saw it he freaked out and told the principal. luckily he didn't know i wrote it. He only told me and his friend jenifer about it. I told him that the guy who wrote it was kidding and he asked me did i know who wrote it or not and i said you can't tell anyone. He agreed and i said it was me. About five minutes later he texted back and said i have one question for you. and i said okay.
After that he said do you want to do those things. I was so shocked i didn't know what to say. So i said yes and he told me i wanna know what you do to me. So we started sexting for a week. ( every night) So finally we went to the movies. So i sat beside him and started to run my hands up and down his cock. After i could feel his dick getting hard i got up from my seat and started to unbutton his pants and i took his dick and put it to my mouth. ( yes in the movie theater, we were the only guys in the back row.) After 10 minutes another guy about 15 ( we are both 14 ) sat literally right next us and started jerking off. it was so hot. But he(drake) has a girlfriend and hasn't spoken to me since the movie date.