Thursday, April 23, 2009

Jailbait seduction techniques

Recently, I was chatting about online cruising with a gay friend who grew up outside the UK, when all of a sudden he asks me a different question.

"But when was your first time, GB?"

"What, from meeting a guy online, or do you mean real first time, however I met him?"

"Yeah, real first time :-)."

"Well, I was in my 20's before I did anything interesting with another guy. What about you?"

"Me?" he replies coyly, "I was only 13!"

"Really? So did you hook up with a class mate or something??"

"No, not at all," he says with a quite a serious look on his face now, "Actually, the guy who touched me was 34."

"My god! I had no idea," I reply, genuinely shocked, "But why on earth did you let that happen? Was it a member of your family? Do you think it had any effect on why you turned out to be gay??"

"Let me tell you the full story," he replies calmly. "When I was 13 the building that I used to live in with my parents had a gym with a swimming pool in the basement, but there was also a sauna in the male changing rooms. So at weekends I'd go swimming and afterwards I'd go into the sauna for a few minutes. I often used to see this guy in there who never wore anything, and I guess because I was gay I loved looking at his naked male body. Eventually we started talking, which is how I found out how old he was. Then for a few weekends he wasn't around, so the next time I saw him I asked him where he'd been. He told me that he'd been on holiday in Mauritius. I said 'wow' and asked if he had any photos. He said he'd bring them down to the pool the next day, but out of curiosity, I asked to go up to his apartment to see them instead."

"Well then," I interrupt, "you were asking for trouble weren't you!"

"Yes but you do those kind of things when you're 13! Anyway he took me up to his apartment, and once inside he showed me around before showing me his holiday pics. I studied the pics closely. He was on holiday with a friend but it was a male friend, and there were no women in any of the photos. And then I spotted a painting of two naked guys on the wall. Eventually he wanted me to leave so I thanked him and he showed me out. But once he'd closed the door behind me, I stood there thinking 'this guy is definitely gay'! So I knocked on his door again, and when he opened it I looked him in the eyes and in my sweetest young voice I said 'I always get hard when I see you in the sauna' ..."

"YOU SAID WHAT?" I ask, almost unable to believe what I'm hearing.

"Well GB," replies my friend with a huge grin on his face now, "I knew I was gay! I knew what I wanted!! This is just the story about how I started getting it :-)."

"So in fact it was YOU who seduced HIM!" I reply, bursting out into howls of laughter.

"Yes of course! He didn't want to do anything with me of course, after all I was jailbait back then. 'Are you hard now?' he whispered to me, and when I replied 'yes, can I come in again?' he told me that I was too young. So I started talking a bit louder and pleading with him 'PLEASE :-) :-)' and perhaps to avoid attracting the neighbour's attention he let me back inside! It was the first time that I'd been touched by another guy and I came almost immediately. I felt so embarrassed that I collected my stuff and left as quickly as I could."

"But did you ever see him again?"

"Yes I did. Actually, after that I couldn't resist going back as often as I could!"

17 comments:

One More Nine said...

Oh, I so wish I'd had that experience at 13! It would have really made life at school and uni so much more fun!

For my sins I was appointed prefect for the changing rooms at school (long before I knew I was gay). I remember it being really awkward as I didn't want to look and yet I did.

Good times, good times!

the happy go lucky one said...

wowww his first time experience was fun and hot! i only had mine in my 20s, and nothing close to his :P

John F said...

Maybe I'm a bit of a prude, but surely a 34-year-old should exercise a bit of self-restraint when being come onto by a 13-year-old? Is it just me? Think of how it would be if this were a mixed-sex couple.

Sting said...

Interesting.

unsungpsalm said...

Oh... my god!
13 year-olds are getting places!!!

close encounters said...

it all sounded just about plausible ... until "after that I couldn't resist going back as often as I could" - a line straight out of a porn story !

One More Nine said...

I remember when I used to look up to 34 year olds as hot 'older' guys. Now they seem like hot toy-boys!

34. A fine vintage.

Anonymous said...

this is just plain wrong. It is sending out the wrong messages to all your readers. The curiosity of a 13 year old is and should not be an invitation to any adult to behave in such a way. Such experiences, whether or not 'consensual' can severly scar and effect the development of the child.

Jonny X said...

OMG 13!

*stunned silence*

Anonymous said...

Gross.

Anonymous said...

haha. child sexual abuse!

John F said...

Except for there's nothing funny about child sexual abuse.

GB said...

LOL One More Nine, surely you mean that you didn't want to be caught looking!

Me too happy go lucky one.

I kind of agree, John F, but then that wouldn't have made such a good story! I've only got this guy's word for all this of course, but on the whole he's pretty reliable.

Yes Sting, I guess 'interesting' is one word for this story.

Well unsung psalm, I reckon it's only a tiny percentage of guys who have the necessary confidence when they're only 13 years old. But for guys like this who do, the usual age of consent is clearly too high.

You actually met this guy very briefly Close Encounters, so you know I'm not making it up! Perhaps over the years he's embellished this story, though, I guess I'll never know for sure.

I know where you're coming from, first anonymous commentator, but l can assure you that those sentiments don't at all apply to this guy. Quite the contrary, I'm sure this was a very good event in his personal development.

I was stunned too Jonny X, but I wasn't silent. As I said in the post, I burst into howls of laughter!

Actually, 2nd and 3rd anonymous commentator, I disagree with both your sentiments. What this guy did aged 13 was appropriate for him, but I agree that it probably wouldn’t be appropriate for most people.

Indeed John F, nothing funny about that. In this case of course, if there was a crime, I'd argue that it was my friend aged 13 who's was the guilty party!

GB xxx

One More Nine said...

Did a quick google on ages of consent. Don't know how much is true as the internet is full of lies and half-truths!

According to Wikipedia, the age of consent in Vatican City is 12!!!!

Quite a few countries range between 13 and 16, either with or without parental consent and also with some clauses about the other partner not being more than 'n' years older (eg 3).

Historically, the female age of consent was whenever a girl was 'ready', ie the onset of puberty.

Clearly, society requires some controls and standardisation, though, which suggests higher ages of consent are likely to be better protection for everyone.

I tend to agree, though, that in reality it comes down to when an individual is 'ready'. We need protections, though, for society to function appropriately.

Personally, I think the age of consent should be 30, maybe 35 :-)

Icy Guy said...

OMG! I'm only 18 and I'm kind of confused and excited at the same time because I might have done the same exact thing in his situation even when I now consider that it is the wrong thing 2 do!

Viagra Online said...

In my world, if you have 13 years old and a thirty something years old person comes and starts touching me and stuff... dude, that is some one raping you!!

Anonymous said...

At 13. I had a 30 yo man andstayed with him on weekendsand had all the sexhe wanted but we were in love i gwve him wbatever he wa.ted anf i was like his son he gave me everything
we were together. for 6 yrs