A rimming session on Saturday afternoon

Well m8 the last time you came round you hadn’t washed your arse :-(

It’s Saturday afternoon on gaydar. A guy had contacted me and when I looked at his photo he looked a bit familiar, but I didn’t recognise his profile name. He’s interested in me visiting him so he can rim me. But he suddenly implies that I visited him before. Honestly, am I meant to remember everyone I meet?

I look at his photo again and I remember. It’s the cute deaf guy (Sunday afternoon session with a deaf gay slapper). I now recall that on that occasion too he had wanted to rim me. I had stripped, and bent over on his bed, but nothing happened. I had turned round to see what he was doing and he was just looking at me, distinctly unhappy. I had reached out to touch him, and we ended up having what for me was an enjoyable wank session. But I guess the guy had wanted more.

While I’m telling the guy that I do remember him, I start to get concerned with my personal hygiene. This is the second guy in a month who has queried my cleanliness (An encounter with a nervous guy in Spitalfields). And on holiday in Asia, boyfriend number 2 had thought that I didn’t shower enough, although he said it was because I lived in a cool climate so I wasn’t any worse than other northern Europeans he knew.

The fact is that I’ve never seen the attraction of rimming, so I’ve never though about it from the point of view of the guys that like it. A shitty proposition must be quite unwelcome for most of them (though no doubt even here there are some guys who would disagree).

Eventually I ask

Sorry about my previous visit, can I visit you again if I wash thoroughly?

He agrees to let me visit him again so I decide to have a full shower. I’m not going do things by halves now that issues with my cleanliness have been brought to my attention!

When I arrive I whip my t-shirt off as soon as I’m inside the door. He tweaks my nipples and I smile at him. I must remember that he can’t hear me. When I get naked he gets me to bend over and gradually shoves his face right into my arse. I guess I pass the cleanliness test. We play around and both reach a satisfactory conclusion.

It’s still not clear to me though why some guys enjoy rimming.